should i follow my mans crush Watch

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is it petty to follow the girl my boyfriend used to link up with before me. he's liked a pic of hers recently and she's interacting with him on my TL etc. I know she's his type and he dated her briefly before me. should i follow her? this will probably cause him discomfort and that's kinda what im after lol
sounds petty but i want him to know im not an idiot.
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davesantana
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how do u have a crush, thats not a celebrity, while in a relationship?
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No. That is very creepy and stalker behaviour. If your boyfriend finds out that you did this, he'll think you're crazy, dump you and then hook up with this girl again.
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(Original post by davesantana)
how do u have a crush, thats not a celebrity, while in a relationship?
bro, idk im not him
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(Original post by BuckHowls)
No. That is very creepy and stalker behaviour. If your boyfriend finds out that you did this, he'll think you're crazy, dump you and then hook up with this girl again.
i mean she's just a random girl and we follow similar people. and tbh i just wanna show him im not stupid or blind.
he defo wont break up with me just because i followed her. why would he? i follow a lot of other people he follows and he finds it normal. why would it suddenly be so dodgy with this girl?
also he looks like he's giving her attention anyway so i might aswell make my point known lol
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bro, idk im not him
im saying u needa talk with ur bf lol. u seem to not be his type and time to break it off b4 he cheats ig
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Anonymous #2
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if you start being petty youre gonna open it up to let him be petty back. he might just keep interacting w her to annoy you. imo you should just ask him about it. if you don’t feel like you can talk to him about it then its a pointless relationship anyway 🤷*♀️
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by davesantana)
im saying u needa talk with ur bf lol. u seem to not be his type and time to break it off b4 he cheats ig
thing is, that wouldve been fine. but it's not that. he says he finds me attractive and ive tried breaking up with him before but he keeps wanting to rekindle etc. and like he's saying he's in love with me and ****.
if he wasnt invested i wouldnt be so confused lol
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Seek help.
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Anonymous #1
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if you start being petty youre gonna open it up to let him be petty back. he might just keep interacting w her to annoy you. imo you should just ask him about it. if you don’t feel like you can talk to him about it then its a pointless relationship anyway 🤷*♀️
i agree. but also bringing it up is gonna let him draw the "why are you so insecure" card. like it's just gonna make me look worse than i look on this thread lol
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(Original post by Shishowbob)
Seek help.
why
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sinfonietta
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He chose you so relax. You won.

Don't bother this girl.
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That's lowkey weird. Just stay away from jealousy and do your own thing
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(Original post by sinfonietta)
He chose you so relax. You won.

Don't bother this girl.
this isnt a pick me situation so please stop that belittling attitude. im genuinely just not about being thought of as an idiot. and i know he has potential to two time us because of previous experiences with this guy. how am i going to bother the girl by giving her an extra follower lol? im not gonna dm her or anything. it's literally for the sake of making this guy uncomfortable
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(Original post by SchmuckOff)
That's lowkey weird. Just stay away from jealousy and do your own thing
i wish i could but man these mfs will actually make you lose it. i think im just gonna break up with him cuz i dont like guys who are sly
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this isnt a pick me situation so please stop that belittling attitude. im genuinely just not about being thought of as an idiot. and i know he has potential to two time us because of previous experiences with this guy. how am i going to bother the girl by giving her an extra follower lol? im not gonna dm her or anything. it's literally for the sake of making this guy uncomfortable
I wasn't belittling you.

If you can't trust this guy to be faithful then you shouldn't be with him at all.
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Doesn't like guys who are sly

Has been watching from sidelines on social media and plans to follow to 'make bf uncomfortable'

Why don't you kids just use your traps and, yknow, talk
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(Original post by sinfonietta)
I wasn't belittling you.

If you can't trust this guy to be faithful then you shouldn't be with him at all.
you have a point.
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Doesn't like guys who are sly

Has been watching from sidelines on social media and plans to follow to 'make bf uncomfortable'

Why don't you kids just use your traps and, yknow, talk
idk if youve never been in a similar situation i guess it's hard to understand why sometimes not talking is better.
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idk if youve never been in a similar situation i guess it's hard to understand why sometimes not talking is better.
Nonsense

But then playing stupid games wins ye stupid prizes
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