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sorry for this rant but i need to get it out. also sorry for it being so long but there is some back story needed i think.
also anon or delete please!
i went out with this guy for about 4 months but the thing is i only saw him once a week at work and 6 times at weekends within that 4 month period. I had previously said i would go out with him but then changed my mind when i realised i didnt fancy him anymore about 5 days later. I then started liking him again later on, possibly because he had an epileptic fit at my work one day and i kept thinking that day that if i was still going out with him then i would get to see him then, and i guess i still cared for him then. This previous 5 dya relationship in which i never saw him was a problem because i was keeping myself in the 4 month relationship because i didnt want to hurt him again (he wouldnt talk to me for a few weeks after the first time).
he broke up with me in april and i suddenly realise how much of an idiot i had been, he wasnt that nice a guy, we didnt have much chat so there was no real topic of conversation unless someone else was around, if i had an opinion and he had another then he would totally disregard mine, tell me i was stupid for thinking that and would really anger me yet i still stayed with him (i said i had donated blood one day and he was really horrible, telling me that i shouldnt be doing that and that he was "lucky" that he couldnt give blood because of his anti-epilepsy tablets, he has no religious views so it wasnt to do with that and donating blood is one of the things that i believe really strongly in so i was really hurt but i just let it pass).
Also, his knowledge of female anatomy was shockingly poor, i dont think he ever actually found where my vagina was despite trying to finger me about 10times. He forced me to give him a blow job and now i have horrible memories of my head being pushed up and down on his d*ck so whenever i give my current boyfriend a blow job (which i do out of choice because i love my current bf and know he would never hurt me) i dont like his hands to be anywhere near my head. He also wanted to have anal sex and had a problem with me saying no, despite the fact that i was the first girl he had gone past pulling with.
he got msn during the april holidays and forced me to do stuff on web cam for him, saying it would make him feel better because he had had a fit. i then saw him that weekend and we were in town, he wouldnt even hold my hand.
so the point is he never really used msn (i forgot he was still on my contact list) but he started using it again suddenly this week. i came on msn tonight and he says hi to me so i said hi back. He then said "waht do you want" and i said "nothing, why are you asking" he says "you started talking to me" and i said "no you said hello to me" and he says "your name flashed up on the screen" and then "bye". it must have been that i had signed in but the thing is that everytime i saw his name on msn this week i got really angry because im still angry at myself over this whole thing. I was going to tell him before he said bye that i hated him for making me hate myself over some of what he did to me and that i wanted him to ***** off.
my question is should i tell him that i hate him when he next comes online or should i just block and delete him?
i guess i still have unresolved issues, mainly because i havent said this to anyone and so writing it here may help but i still feel really angry, like i need to punch a wall
also anon or delete please!
i went out with this guy for about 4 months but the thing is i only saw him once a week at work and 6 times at weekends within that 4 month period. I had previously said i would go out with him but then changed my mind when i realised i didnt fancy him anymore about 5 days later. I then started liking him again later on, possibly because he had an epileptic fit at my work one day and i kept thinking that day that if i was still going out with him then i would get to see him then, and i guess i still cared for him then. This previous 5 dya relationship in which i never saw him was a problem because i was keeping myself in the 4 month relationship because i didnt want to hurt him again (he wouldnt talk to me for a few weeks after the first time).
he broke up with me in april and i suddenly realise how much of an idiot i had been, he wasnt that nice a guy, we didnt have much chat so there was no real topic of conversation unless someone else was around, if i had an opinion and he had another then he would totally disregard mine, tell me i was stupid for thinking that and would really anger me yet i still stayed with him (i said i had donated blood one day and he was really horrible, telling me that i shouldnt be doing that and that he was "lucky" that he couldnt give blood because of his anti-epilepsy tablets, he has no religious views so it wasnt to do with that and donating blood is one of the things that i believe really strongly in so i was really hurt but i just let it pass).
Also, his knowledge of female anatomy was shockingly poor, i dont think he ever actually found where my vagina was despite trying to finger me about 10times. He forced me to give him a blow job and now i have horrible memories of my head being pushed up and down on his d*ck so whenever i give my current boyfriend a blow job (which i do out of choice because i love my current bf and know he would never hurt me) i dont like his hands to be anywhere near my head. He also wanted to have anal sex and had a problem with me saying no, despite the fact that i was the first girl he had gone past pulling with.
he got msn during the april holidays and forced me to do stuff on web cam for him, saying it would make him feel better because he had had a fit. i then saw him that weekend and we were in town, he wouldnt even hold my hand.
so the point is he never really used msn (i forgot he was still on my contact list) but he started using it again suddenly this week. i came on msn tonight and he says hi to me so i said hi back. He then said "waht do you want" and i said "nothing, why are you asking" he says "you started talking to me" and i said "no you said hello to me" and he says "your name flashed up on the screen" and then "bye". it must have been that i had signed in but the thing is that everytime i saw his name on msn this week i got really angry because im still angry at myself over this whole thing. I was going to tell him before he said bye that i hated him for making me hate myself over some of what he did to me and that i wanted him to ***** off.
my question is should i tell him that i hate him when he next comes online or should i just block and delete him?
i guess i still have unresolved issues, mainly because i havent said this to anyone and so writing it here may help but i still feel really angry, like i need to punch a wall
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Just block and delete him. He goes away, hopefully problem solved. No point telling him you hate him cos he'll prob wind you up more.
Aconite
Block and delete him. Then tear the head off your teddy.
i dont have a teddy
you're such a troll!
Anonymous
i dont have a teddy
you're such a troll!
you're such a troll!
What?
"Hey (insert his name), you're a prick"
Then Block Delete...Then tear the head off his teddy
Then Block Delete...Then tear the head off his teddy
The mature thing is to block and delete him... but this guy is a bastard! Tell other people about how much of a dick he is.
MSB
There there. Troll accusations happen to the best of us. That's how you know you're doing well.
I mean, I'M GLAD.
Anyway, OP, I'm sure he deserves whatever you can find in your imagination to say to him.
I mean, I'M GLAD.
Anyway, OP, I'm sure he deserves whatever you can find in your imagination to say to him.
Nice editing, sunshine. I saw what you called me. And don't you think I'll forget it, either.
Cow.
Sounds like you did a lot of stuff you didn't actually want to do! Tell him he's a user and behaved appallingly then block him out. If you start going out with a guy and he doesn't make an effort to chat and get to know you, that's a bad sign. Hold out in the sex department until you know he's a respectful person. If he keeps pressuring you and trying to manipulate you into having sex when you're not ready to, then he's just a User! Better to be single and have your dignity. Please don't be a pushover, your a person not a sex toy. I've been worrying about you actually. Maybe I've got it all completely wrong but it seems to me you have very low self-esteem. Be kind to yourself. In life I guess we are just trying to learn from our experiences and our mistakes. Be happy! Every day is a new beginning!
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