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I was just talking to this girl I like for ages over the fone, and decided things were going quite well so I asked her if I could take her out sometime later on in the summer hols.

After agonisingly explaining wot I meant by 'take you out' (as if she was just checking I didnt want to beat her up) she said 'we'll see, I'm not sure' and then after a ridiculously long pause 'i don't want to talk to you about this over the fone'.

All i wanted was a simple yes or no :frown:

- now i won't see her for 3 weeks so I'm in limbo.

Why do girls do this??

Reply 1

Tinkerbee

13

Cos we has boobs.

That or... God knows :s-smilie:

Reply 2

Lithium

13

olly_springs

I was just talking to this girl I like for ages over the fone, and decided things were going quite well so I asked her if I could take her out sometime later on in the summer hols.

After agonisingly explaining wot I meant by 'take you out' (as if she was just checking I didnt want to beat her up) she said 'we'll see, I'm not sure' and then after a ridiculously long pause 'i don't want to talk to you about this over the fone'.

All i wanted was a simple yes or no :frown:

- now i won't see her for 3 weeks so I'm in limbo.

Why do girls do this??

b/c they are girls mate....

on a more serious note, has it occured to you that perhaps she didnt see this coming, and thought of you more of a really really close friend? and when you asked her out, it kinda blew her outta da water?

it's the only thing i can think of :frown:

and to the ladies : it's all part of your charm :wink:

Reply 3

Lithium

13

Tinkerbee

Cos we has boobs.

That or... God knows :s-smilie:

no silly silly girl....boobs is why guys care so damned much when something like THIS happens :biggrin:

there has to another reason...i'm sure :biggrin:

Reply 4

DeepStar

17

We like to bide our time :p:

or maybe you just took her by surprise...give her some time, you will get a yes or no answer...eventually :biggrin:

Reply 5

DisgruntledMoth

14

Because you would have been hurt if she said no?

We have feelings.

Reply 6

olly_springs

OP

9

Lithium

b/c they are girls mate....

on a more serious note, has it occured to you that perhaps she didnt see this coming, and thought of you more of a really really close friend? and when you asked her out, it kinda blew her outta da water?

she saw it coming, pretty much the entire year at school has been telling her how much I like her, and also telling me how much she likes me. Don't mean to sound arrogant but I was expecting a positive answer :frown:

Reply 7

Miss_Scarlett

15

I dont know nervousness takes its effect. But I wish he would just come out with the question "do you like me?". Why cant guys be straight? :p:

.....I dont know if he uses TSR :s-smilie:

he is travelling anyway so most likely not on TSR.

Reply 8

cactus_c

1

Coz you're right in the middle of the friendzone.

Reply 9

Lithium

13

DisgruntledMoth

We have feelings.

that is yet to be proven :frown:

Reply 10

Smoobla

How odd. Had I reacted like that, it would have been because I didn't want to go out with you but I wanted to spare your feelings. If you keep pushing, she may relent. :biggrin:

Reply 11

olly_springs

OP

9

Tinkerbee

Cos we has boobs.

That or... God knows :s-smilie:

yea cheers for that Tinkerbee :smile:

i mite turn gay :s-smilie:

Reply 12

Lithium

13

olly_springs

she saw it coming, pretty much the entire year at school has been telling her how much I like her, and also telling me how much she likes me. Don't mean to sound arrogant but I was expecting a positive answer :frown:

well, then maybe she found another guy that is more "available"

girls...any thoughts? i am a guy...not much smarts when it comes to this :P "understanding the ladiiiieees"

Reply 13

olly_springs

OP

9

cactus_c

Coz you're right in the middle of the friendzone.

Ahhhhhhhhhhh not the friendzone, please no :eek:

Reply 14

Lithium

13

Smoobla

How odd. Had I reacted like that, it would have been because I didn't want to go out with you but I wanted to spare your feelings. If you keep pushing, she may relent. :biggrin:

the world could use more girls like you :yep:

Reply 15

Smoobla

What the frig is the friendzone?!

Reply 16

Lithium

13

olly_springs

Ahhhhhhhhhhh not the friendzone, please no :eek:

oh damnit, how did i forget that...the all dreadful, feared, "friend" trap :frown:

mate...you might very well be in a tough situation :smile:

girls...help this guy...he needs it!

Reply 17

Smoobla

Lithium

the world could use more girls like you :yep:

What do you mean? Callous, arrogant and ill-mannered? :p:

Reply 18

Lithium

13

Smoobla

What the frig is the friendzone?!

where a guy and girl that could potentially date b/c that like each other hang out for so long and so often w/o taking it that extra step that the relationship gets caught in the "friend" zone..never progresses...and it's usually the girls decision... i really never understood that :frown:

Reply 19

SuperStaah

12

I agree with Smoobla, I think she probably doesn't feel the same way, and is using this as an excuse to turn you down. By saying 'i don't want to talk to you about this over the fone', she is probably afraid to say no over the phone and doesn't know what to do.
Sorry OP :hugs:

I could be completely wrong though... :ninja:

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