Boyfriend has been sad about us Watch
My boyfriend rarely gets sad.. he's a very positive person. He does get fed up that I'm not my normal, happy self recently... this is largely due to not having a job. It's impacted the relationship as we argue so much recently. However I have recently made some goals and am working towards them... I feel a lot better since doing this and I'm slowly getting there.
We are still having a few hiccups. My boyfriend was really sad the other day, saying he doesn't understand why it's not working between us. He said all this on a day when I was very happy, so it dragged me down too. He feels I've hurt him with some of the things I've said and done and he's not sure how much I love him anymore. I reassured him that I love him the same and we are going to talk next time we see one another. Since that day he's picked himself up and is talking to me fine now... but I've been really low since, as I've clearly hurt him and I'm struggling to live with that. I just can't talk to him normally as though nothing is wrong... usually in the past I have always managed to bounce back, but I've never intended to hurt him and the fact that he is sad about the relationship doesn't sit well with me.
I don't really know what to do. I want to feel better and I feel bad because now my boyfriend is really making the effort to talk to me, I think he knows it's upset me too. I feel very guilty..is it wrong for me to feel this way?