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We had sex for the first time. He pushed me on the bed and when he was on top of me before the sex began, he kept staring at me for at least a few seconds. It was like intense staring for 10-15 seconds and then he went straight into kissing etc.

Why did he do that?
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looking for that long is intense. He obviously cares about you.
He may also have been looking to check it was ok to carry on
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Possibly to try and suss out your emotions - whether you're enjoying it, if you're uncomfortable etc
Maybe he thought it was sexy or intense

If you really want to know, ask him.
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Ask him, not us
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Had you ever tried it before and it didn’t happen?
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Had you ever tried it before and it didn’t happen?
No we had sex for the first time. It has never happened before but even before we kiss, he does stare at me intensely then goes in for the kiss
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looking for that long is intense. He obviously cares about you.
He may also have been looking to check it was ok to carry on
He just kept looking st me. It was such an intense eye contact. Usually I cannot look into his eyes for that long because they are very piercing but I had to because he was so close to my face.
I tried asking him but he just blushed and walked away?
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Ask him, not us
Tried. No reply. He just blushed and gave a small smile
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No we had sex for the first time. It has never happened before but even before we kiss, he does stare at me intensely then goes in for the kiss
No I meant like had you every tried having sex before and it didn’t happen

How old is he? Are you his first time too?
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He was just looking at you. Don't look for a deep meaning in it because there likely isn't one there.
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I agree with Sinfonietta, just enjoy each others company, dont read to much into things.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
We had sex for the first time. He pushed me on the bed and when he was on top of me before the sex began, he kept staring at me for at least a few seconds. It was like intense staring for 10-15 seconds and then he went straight into kissing etc.

Why did he do that?
first time, he was probably nervous & needed a few seconds to compose himself.
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No we had sex for the first time. It has never happened before but even before we kiss, he does stare at me intensely then goes in for the kiss
Staring is completely normal. I personally see it as a good thing. But as previously said, talk to them about it.
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No I meant like had you every tried having sex before and it didn’t happen

How old is he? Are you his first time too?
Yes before it has never happened if you mean with other guys.

Hes 24 and no I'm not his first time
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I agree with Sinfonietta, just enjoy each others company, dont read to much into things.
Thanks. I just find it strange that he stares so much . He never says why. He just smiles when asked
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Tried. No reply. He just blushed and gave a small smile
my ex did that :lol:
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Yes before it has never happened if you mean with other guys.

Hes 24 and no I'm not his first time
Sounds like he’s trying to create connection and more passion and he’s definitely into you and enjoying it
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Where would you prefer him to look when you're banging and faces are opposite each other?

Would you feel more comfortable if he just stared at your tits instead?
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He wants to try a second time.
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Where would you prefer him to look when you're banging and faces are opposite each other?

Would you feel more comfortable if he just stared at your tits instead?
He won't stare anywhere else. The first time he did look down there and boobs but that's it. All he does he stare into my face
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