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Mr potential boyfriend is 20 years old than me. Been talking to him since last year june. We're gonna spend a weekend together soon and ive felt for some time that ive loved him. I've only met him once before in real life. When we first met i had been dating other guys but these recent 2/3 months we got closer and finally met. We talk ever day. I love him. Am i gonna make him run away if i confess my feelings?
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Can I please ask how old you are and how you started talking to him?
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(Original post by Tredoltle)
Can I please ask how old you are and how you started talking to him?
i would like to know this too
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i would like to know this too
I slide in his dmsπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. And then i told him i liked him after sometime. We met online on LinkedIn actually πŸ˜‚πŸ™Š. He seemed interesting so i kept talking to him. And at some point i realized i really liked him.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I slide in his dmsπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. And then i told him i liked him after sometime. We met online on LinkedIn actually πŸ˜‚πŸ™Š. He seemed interesting so i kept talking to him. And at some point i realized i really liked him.
How old are you??
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I slide in his dmsπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. And then i told him i liked him after sometime. We met online on LinkedIn actually πŸ˜‚πŸ™Š. He seemed interesting so i kept talking to him. And at some point i realized i really liked him.
And now I feel like im starting to love him. He's my everything and can be my best friend tbh... I'm always talking to him or thinking about him. It feels like love. I want more than a sexual relationship with him. He was totally against me falling for him in the beginning. I actually dated another guy because he told me to find someone my age. I tried with the younger guy but it didn't work out. Sometime after we started texting again and ever since it feels like he may actually give us a chance. I'm not sure what changed his mind. I think he grew fond of our everyday conversations
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you can't love someone that you have only met once
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Sounds like infatuation, not love.
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Bad idea 😨
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Anonymous #1
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I told him it feels sometimes like i love him...i probably aj am falling in love with him i guess
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Now that i told him it feels like i should have kept it cool for longer
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You literally asked us for advice but ignored us...
Again, please let us know how old you are - it helps with what advice to give you, we won't judge you for your age
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(Original post by Tredoltle)
You literally asked us for advice but ignored us...
Again, please let us know how old you are - it helps with what advice to give you, we won't judge you for your age
25 in February and he
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Anonymous #1
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25 in February and he
And he just turned 45 in December *πŸ™Š..
Sorry i told him this yesterday after i posted this thread before i got any reply
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Thanks for the replies and advice so far ❀
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25 in February and he
Have you had other relationships? I don’t think you can really be in love after one meeting. Has he ever been married and does he have children?
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thought u said hes 20 years younger so meaning u were in love with a 5 year old..
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Have you had other relationships? I don’t think you can really be in love after one meeting. Has he ever been married and does he have children?
Thanks for the reply. No hes never married and doesn't have kids. He's only had long term patners and more recently fwb relationships.

I have been in love before and in other relationships.

And i started to feel the feelings of love before we met for the first time. Maybe I'm just deeply infatuated and confused. I don't know. I definitely more than like him
It honestly started to feel for me like i had met my true love. The more i texted him the more i started to feel like i could love him or im falling for him and i could have a happy life with him.
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(Original post by davesantana)
thought u said hes 20 years younger so meaning u were in love with a 5 year old..
LolπŸ˜‚πŸ™Š
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Thanks for the reply. No hes never married and doesn't have kids. He's only had long term patners and more recently fwb relationships.

I have been in love before and in other relationships.

And i started to feel the feelings of love before we met for the first time. Maybe I'm just deeply infatuated and confused. I don't know. I definitely more than like him
It honestly started to feel for me like i had met my true love. The more i texted him the more i started to feel like i could love him or im falling for him and i could have a happy life with him.
I don’t think the age difference is a huge issue because you’re old enough. Has he replied to your message?
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