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Ex boyfriend erased me?

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At this rate I can see why he prefers the other girl, you're clearly obsessed over him.
it's not disrespectful to not talk about your exes and quite obviously he loves her probably from what you describe more than he loved you and you did just fall in between, him dating you was ****ty as he clearly wanted his ex at the time but he has no obligation to you at all as you aren't part of his life anymore, might feel ****ty but that's how it is
You really just seem like you're in some insane made up world where you expect whatever you want to happen to happen, any life choices someone makes has nothing to do with you unless it directly affects you, which none of what he's doing is, he clearly broke up with you for a reason as from what you've posted you seem like you don't treat him like a human, you seem to be treating him like a set of statistics where you don't seem to understand that he has free will and will like what he likes, maybe he was just in your friend group because he was dating you maybe he actually knows his current girlfriend and has a good time with her unlike you where you seem to judge on face value.
Original post by Snagglepup
You really just seem like you're in some insane made up world where you expect whatever you want to happen to happen, any life choices someone makes has nothing to do with you unless it directly affects you, which none of what he's doing is, he clearly broke up with you for a reason as from what you've posted you seem like you don't treat him like a human, you seem to be treating him like a set of statistics where you don't seem to understand that he has free will and will like what he likes, maybe he was just in your friend group because he was dating you maybe he actually knows his current girlfriend and has a good time with her unlike you where you seem to judge on face value.

Lol he was friends with us much before he met her or dated me
if he was part of your friend group before he started dating her then maybe he wasn't as actively a part of your group as you thought he was as he was clearly going out and meeting people without your group
Original post by Snagglepup
if he was part of your friend group before he started dating her then maybe he wasn't as actively a part of your group as you thought he was as he was clearly going out and meeting people without your group

He was very involved and that's how he met her as he was campaigning and randomly saw her as per as my info
What do you actually want? Like what is the dream scenario here? He realises that he doesn't love this girl anymore and downgrades back to being unemployed, not in uni, not really going anywhere, gets back with an obsessive ex and becomes an argumentative, aggressive guy again?
Original post by boods8897
What do you actually want? Like what is the dream scenario here? He realises that he doesn't love this girl anymore and downgrades back to being unemployed, not in uni, not really going anywhere, gets back with an obsessive ex and becomes an argumentative, aggressive guy again?

How are we not going anywhere? We do politics and occupy all important positions within SU. We are members of trade unions and friends with people from trade unions/UCU etc. We are also doing demonstrations everywhere. Hows that bad?
clearly worse for him as now he's advancing in a career and making a life form himself
Original post by Snagglepup
clearly worse for him as now he's advancing in a career and making a life form himself

You mean that's worse? What I outlined above?
yes, being part of student union and trade union is worse than being in a successful career demonstrations and everything may be good for your cause etc. but aren't going to give you a better life in terms of income and stuff
So he’s doing much better than he ever did with you and is going up in the world. Are you jealous?
plot twist, what really happened as the OP annoyed her boyfriend so much that he dumped her and went to the other girl, also the OP probably was a bunny boiler
Original post by Anonymous
So he’s doing much better than he ever did with you and is going up in the world. Are you jealous?


Original post by Anonymous
How are we not going anywhere? We do politics and occupy all important positions within SU. We are members of trade unions and friends with people from trade unions/UCU etc. We are also doing demonstrations everywhere. Hows that bad?

We do this and we are bad?
Ffs nobody has said you're all doing badly, just that being in the SU is hardly the world's best career and if your ex (who you said yourself was unemployed) has got himself a job and a masters then good for him! Just because we're saying his life has got better FROM WHAT YOU'RE SAYING isn't saying anything bad about your other friends
Are you being paid to do all that stuff?
Original post by Anonymous
Are you being paid to do all that stuff?

Sab officers are paid. And trade union jobs are also paid arent they
I wasn’t sure if you were in voluntary roles within your student union. Maybe he wants to move on and gain more work experience and further his career. Not everyone is happy staying doing the same job forever.
Original post by Anonymous
I wasn’t sure if you were in voluntary roles within your student union. Maybe he wants to move on and gain more work experience and further his career. Not everyone is happy staying doing the same job forever.

He wasnt in a job. He was working in vehicle repair shops mostly
But he was active within your students union but not being paid?

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