I still like my ex and need some advice Watch

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My ex broke up with me about a month ago because she wanted to be independent she said. The other day I tried going on a date with a new girl to move on, but I can’t help missing my ex and comparing every new girl to my ex. Like I just don’t have the same chemistry or connection as I did with my ex and that’s what I miss. Should I message my ex or try and move on? I don’t know what to do.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
My ex broke up with me about a month ago because she wanted to be independent she said. The other day I tried going on a date with a new girl to move on, but I can’t help missing my ex and comparing every new girl to my ex. Like I just don’t have the same chemistry or connection as I did with my ex and that’s what I miss. Should I message my ex or try and move on? I don’t know what to do.
Since it’s only been a month it’s normal to miss her. I don’t recommend messaging as she’s your ex for a reason
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(Original post by Blueclueless)
Since it’s only been a month it’s normal to miss her. I don’t recommend messaging as she’s your ex for a reason
I never wanted her to break up with me and we didn’t end on a bad foot or anything she just said she wanted to be independent. Do u still think I shouldn’t message her?
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I’d say message her, maybe she’s missing you and wants you to message her. Hope all works out for you.
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I’d say message her, maybe she’s missing you and wants you to message her. Hope all works out for you.
Yeh maybe I might, thanks for the advice
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i’m still madly in love with my ex and i’m 9 moths down the road. I’ve dated, i actually got another girlfriend at one point, but still couldnt help but feel in love with her still. Now, i’m on my own. She has a new boyfriend, perfectly happy and loved up. And there’s nothing i can do about it. If you love her, go and get her before it’s too late. what have you got to loose.
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I never wanted her to break up with me and we didn’t end on a bad foot or anything she just said she wanted to be independent. Do u still think I shouldn’t message her?
I know I just meant she might want a little more then a month since she wanted to be independent and you might make her annoyed if you start to message her
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just tell her how you feel and be honest with her, thats the best thing you can do in my opinion, if she still likes you you two can get back together, if she doesnt want to get back together with you though unfortunately your just gonna have to move on, i know its harder than it sounds and it may feel impossible at first like youll never be able to get over her but eventually you will, just give it more time than a month.
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just tell her how you feel and be honest with her, thats the best thing you can do in my opinion, if she still likes you you two can get back together, if she doesnt want to get back together with you though unfortunately your just gonna have to move on, i know its harder than it sounds and it may feel impossible at first like youll never be able to get over her but eventually you will, just give it more time than a month.
Really appreciate the advice, think I will do this seems like the best option.
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Really appreciate the advice, think I will do this seems like the best option.
no problem, hopefully everything works out for you in the end even if you dont get back together with her
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(Original post by jerrybangers)
i’m still madly in love with my ex and i’m 9 moths down the road. I’ve dated, i actually got another girlfriend at one point, but still couldnt help but feel in love with her still. Now, i’m on my own. She has a new boyfriend, perfectly happy and loved up. And there’s nothing i can do about it. If you love her, go and get her before it’s too late. what have you got to loose.
Aww I wish someone wanted me like that
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honestly, i am in the same situation right now. all i can say is that for now you need to focus on yourself and if the time comes where it’s meant to be, itll happen. until then, try to put your focus on something else.
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I wouldn't message her it will only open old wounds.
She is an ex for a reason, time to move on and start a fresh elsewhere.
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honestly, i am in the same situation right now. all i can say is that for now you need to focus on yourself and if the time comes where it’s meant to be, itll happen. until then, try to put your focus on something else.
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