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My boyfriend is cheating on me with my friend what should I do?
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Do the same. Also what is he doing? Because some things aren't really classed as cheating, like kissing. Full sex is probably cheating though but if you havent put rules in place beforehand your kinda partly at fault
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(Original post by ajibade49)
My boyfriend is cheating on me with my friend what should I do?
U should break up with him and get revenge.
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Do the same. Also what is he doing? Because some things aren't really classed as cheating, like kissing. Full sex is probably cheating though but if you havent put rules in place beforehand your kinda partly at fault
Not really her fault at all
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Break up with him if he’s not willing to commit to your relationship or he’s willing to do stuff with another girl, without considering you.
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Not really her fault at all
Well alright not for the cheating part but some people have different rules. If he doesn't know what those rules are or she hasn't said what she classes as cheating then how is he supposed to know
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Confront him about it, and see what he says. Then break up, because girl you deserve better
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End it.
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(Original post by ajibade49)
My boyfriend is cheating on me with my friend what should I do?
To me it's a no brainer. Once a cheat always a cheat, ditch him.
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break up with him, and don't talk to the "friend", who arguably isn't a true friend if they are hooking up with your bf knowingly. Don't get revenge or do the same as other posters suggest, it's not worth it and would just make things a 100x worse than they already are, also you'll come out of it as a better person for just breaking up with your bf and friend.
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To me it's a no brainer. Once a cheat always a cheat, ditch him.
That's not always the case and quite closed minded to think like that. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance
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That's not always the case and quite closed minded to think like that. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance
I respect your point of view.
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End it.
there’s nothing else to it but this. don’t retaliate, don’t scream and shout. end the relationship and the friendship and move onwards
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My boyfriend is cheating on me with my friend what should I do?
Both your boyfriend and and your friend have committed an act of disloyalty and have proven themselves inferior. Like any investment of no value (these are simply emotional investments), write them off.
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I've been in this situation, I stayed with him and it's one of the biggest regrets. End the relationship, you deserve so much better
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How is kissing not counted as cheating?! My ex kissed another girl and it hurt just as much as if he'd slept with her...
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Do the same. Also what is he doing? Because some things aren't really classed as cheating, like kissing. Full sex is probably cheating though but if you havent put rules in place beforehand your kinda partly at fault
The hell are you on about 😂
If he even kisses another girl that means he's not being faithful, so basically cheating.
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The hell are you on about 😂
If he even kisses another girl that means he's not being faithful, so basically cheating.
Depends on what you class as cheating. And everyone classes it differently. The op didn't say what it was he had done specifically. And what about when people get drunk and kiss others? Not that this is what's happened but you just said kissing. Everyone makes a mistake and op should not just throw it away for that.
If it's sex that's different then but even then people have different rules. I'd say if op didn't want to break up, then just do the same as the bf because that's where the bar has been set.
Some people are really uptight. It's good to be in a relationship but you can't expect everyone to find it easy to only kiss or have sex with that 1 person and no one else.
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Depends on what you class as cheating. And everyone classes it differently. The op didn't say what it was he had done specifically. And what about when people get drunk and kiss others? Not that this is what's happened but you just said kissing. Everyone makes a mistake and op should not just throw it away for that.
If it's sex that's different then but even then people have different rules. I'd say if op didn't want to break up, then just do the same as the bf because that's where the bar has been set.
Some people are really uptight. It's good to be in a relationship but you can't expect everyone to find it easy to only kiss or have sex with that 1 person and no one else.
lol sure
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How is kissing not counted as cheating?! My ex kissed another girl and it hurt just as much as if he'd slept with her...
Because sometimes it doesn't mean anything, like if the person is drunk or it was just a 1 time thing. Full sex can be classed as cheating, but again when people are drunk it's different, but stuff like kissing or flirting is fine
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