i feel like we all want to fit in and be like everyone else at the beginning of anything, because we're scared of being different. but once we're comfortable we seem to change into ourselves and we all distinguish as people. im in year 11 and i always think about it as how my year was in year 7, and how now we've all kinda flourished into our own people. i don't think being the same as everyone else is wrong, i just feel it's a little boring. like, life is too short to be like everyone else. being yourself and being comfortable in your own skin is what comes first.