2 secs unprotected

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Last night I was with this security guard in my complex who gave me his number that morning, we were texting each other and chatting. So we organised to meet at the bottom of my complex at around 7, so we were chatting to and he started complimenting me and due some issues i'm dealing with i'm a very easy target atm but i take full responsibility of what happened.

Anyway he started to kiss me and feed me fruits, this then turned into him sitting on top of me and some intense kissing and touching. He then took my hand and took me to the side of the park where the bushes where. We started kissing again but I could feel him unzipping his pants and moving my shorts, i said "stop, do u have a condom?", he then said "no i stupidly dont have one". In response to this and keeping my standards i said "i dont have sex without a condom".

We then continued to kiss and his manhood was still out, he started to press against me and i felt his enter me for like 2 secs. As soon as this happened I said stop, fixed my clothing and walked off. As I was walking off, my mind was racing through all the STDs i could have gotten. I was really angry cause i told him no sex without a condom and angry at myself for not stopping when he said he didnt have one. I thinking since it was only 2 secs and i know that he was dry right before he entered me, was there any high chance of me getting an STD. I know i need to get tested but not for another 1 or so for the STD to be detected. I also asked him if he always had protected sex, he said yes but i'm not convinced with his decision last night to continue and enter me.

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Reply 1

dh00001

you did the right thing in stopping him so good on you for that.
really its possible to get something after any contact. really its best to get yourself tested just to put your mind at ease if nothing else

Reply 2

Zii

Get yourself tested, if you are indeed real.

Reply 3

tom_tom_tom

Go along to a GUM clinic to get it check out

Reply 4

warblade

Best thing is to get yourself tested really. :smile:

Reply 5

Basil Hallward

Get yourself tested, just in case.

Reply 6

Cocaine Socialist

He fed you fruits?

I mean -- get yourself tested, just in case.

Reply 7

Double Agent

Not sure you can catch anything from a fantasy,but if you're worried then get yourself checked out.

Reply 8

blahbloo

Get yourself checked out and well done on you saying no to him!

Reply 9

Yasmin2K8

Bubbles*de*Milo

Trolltastic :smile:

Yeah the first 2 paragraphs are quite a turn on, sounds like an extract from an erotic book.

OP Best to just get yourself checked out.

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

Meh don't want to scare you, but this kinda happened to me, bloke rubbed himself against me and I was left with a present - Chlamydia.

Although as you said it was for 2secs, for peace of mind go to your local GUM, just to be on the safe side.

Well done on saying no though :smile:

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Yasmin2K8

Yeah the first 2 paragraphs are quite a turn on, sounds like an extract from an erotic book.

OP Best to just get yourself checked out.

lol. Thanks but its actually real, except for the ending. But he was a really nice guy and i still talk to him but didnt agree with his actions.

Well since this only happened on monday night when should i get myself tested like next week monday or wed or in a month's time?

Reply 12

Seanisonfire

You're lucky you got 2 seconds tbh.

Reply 13

suek

Not a huge chance of course - but you'd always wonder unless you get checked :smile:

Reply 14

DiscoPirate

If you have contracted something it won't be any of the serious ones. Probably at worst Chlamidia, Gono, or Syph, because they're the more 'active' (right word to use in this situation?) All treatable with medication.

Reply 15

bigdaveracer

possible, if unlikely if he was dry, but get yourself checked nonetheless

Reply 16

suek

Oh things like genital warts/syphilis (at a certain stage) don't need fluids to be transmitted :p:

Just contact with the sore in question could do it.

Reply 17

Emmska

Get things checked out and ignore Sean :p:

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

Thanks for all the advice guys i'll go get tested next week wed then.

Reply 19

TrentEnd

Anonymous

Anyway he started to kiss me and feed me fruits

I know I'll probably get warned (again) for spamming H&R, but is this a euphemism?! If not, I have visions of this bloke trying to seduce you with some grapes or something!

*I resisted, with every fibre of my being, the temptation to make a banana joke...*