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I have been into girls all my life, but recently I have developed sexual feelings towards men even some romantic ones. Last year a friend of mine whilst both in relationships got drunk and we kissed. We both told our partners and they were very understanding and mine even did some things sexually to help meet some of my desires. However, there’s still this burning desire to be with a man. I guess I was wondering if anyone was in a similar position, ad
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I am a Woman, I felt this way when I was with my boyfriend. I was attracted to him but felt emotionally and physically attracted to women. after we broke up I tried different dating apps to chat to women because I felt confused about my sexuality. I found my current girlfriend through work, we've been together for two years. I still am attracted to men but I've discovered that I am bisexual. I think you need to explore with men, you may discover that you're bisexual but if you refuse yourself that then you may always feel confused and frustrated because I know I did. good luck!
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This may sound controversial and not everyone may feel the same. But, I wholeheartedly felt like I was bisexual for like 5 years.
I was convinced. I had a burning desire to be with someone from the same gender as me. Then, I stopped becoming bisexual because I felt like I was becoming gay. Because, I wasn’t attracted to guys at all - or at least not sexually etc
But I felt like it was in control. And, I’m straight now. So it could be psychological
I was convinced. I had a burning desire to be with someone from the same gender as me. Then, I stopped becoming bisexual because I felt like I was becoming gay. Because, I wasn’t attracted to guys at all - or at least not sexually etc
But I felt like it was in control. And, I’m straight now. So it could be psychological
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You told and they were understanding? Your girlfriend tried to meet your gay desires? You’re either a troll or your girlfriend is a total doormat.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
This may sound controversial and not everyone may feel the same. But, I wholeheartedly felt like I was bisexual for like 5 years.
I was convinced. I had a burning desire to be with someone from the same gender as me. Then, I stopped becoming bisexual because I felt like I was becoming gay. Because, I wasn’t attracted to guys at all - or at least not sexually etc
But I felt like it was in control. And, I’m straight now. So it could be psychological
This may sound controversial and not everyone may feel the same. But, I wholeheartedly felt like I was bisexual for like 5 years.
I was convinced. I had a burning desire to be with someone from the same gender as me. Then, I stopped becoming bisexual because I felt like I was becoming gay. Because, I wasn’t attracted to guys at all - or at least not sexually etc
But I felt like it was in control. And, I’m straight now. So it could be psychological
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(Original post by Anonymous)
This may sound controversial and not everyone may feel the same. But, I wholeheartedly felt like I was bisexual for like 5 years.
I was convinced. I had a burning desire to be with someone from the same gender as me. Then, I stopped becoming bisexual because I felt like I was becoming gay. Because, I wasn’t attracted to guys at all - or at least not sexually etc
But I felt like it was in control. And, I’m straight now. So it could be psychological
This may sound controversial and not everyone may feel the same. But, I wholeheartedly felt like I was bisexual for like 5 years.
I was convinced. I had a burning desire to be with someone from the same gender as me. Then, I stopped becoming bisexual because I felt like I was becoming gay. Because, I wasn’t attracted to guys at all - or at least not sexually etc
But I felt like it was in control. And, I’m straight now. So it could be psychological
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I felt something similar, but it was just a phase and I feel like I've grown out of it now. Although my pron history says something different...But that's just fantasy.
I felt something similar, but it was just a phase and I feel like I've grown out of it now. Although my pron history says something different...But that's just fantasy.
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I think it's possible to have romantic attractions to other guys and not be gay. You could even have sexual thoughts about another guy but when doing it, you might hate it, all of it. It could purely be in your mind. That being said, if you don't feel the same way about and also don't enjoy sex with women, then yeah you're gay.
In my experience, I've found other guys attractive but will never ever enjoy sex with them and it's different to how I like women. So it's completely personal, just ask yourself how you want to be with that person and be honest with yourself, always keep an open mind and don't question yourself too much. Just do what feels right and if that leads you to something wrong, simply learn from it and get on with it
In my experience, I've found other guys attractive but will never ever enjoy sex with them and it's different to how I like women. So it's completely personal, just ask yourself how you want to be with that person and be honest with yourself, always keep an open mind and don't question yourself too much. Just do what feels right and if that leads you to something wrong, simply learn from it and get on with it
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(Original post by Anonymous)
It didn’t feel like a phase?? I’ve literally always felt this way since a child. And, I rarely sometimes have “urges” but it honestly feels like more of an intense negative emotion rather something that needed to be expressed and “let out” it doesn’t feel good. Which is why I’ve changed that because it didn’t feel natural?
It didn’t feel like a phase?? I’ve literally always felt this way since a child. And, I rarely sometimes have “urges” but it honestly feels like more of an intense negative emotion rather something that needed to be expressed and “let out” it doesn’t feel good. Which is why I’ve changed that because it didn’t feel natural?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
It didn’t feel like a phase?? I’ve literally always felt this way since a child. And, I rarely sometimes have “urges” but it honestly feels like more of an intense negative emotion rather something that needed to be expressed and “let out” it doesn’t feel good. Which is why I’ve changed that because it didn’t feel natural?
It didn’t feel like a phase?? I’ve literally always felt this way since a child. And, I rarely sometimes have “urges” but it honestly feels like more of an intense negative emotion rather something that needed to be expressed and “let out” it doesn’t feel good. Which is why I’ve changed that because it didn’t feel natural?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Looks like you have a fragile masculinity, buddy. You simply don’t want to look “gay” cus’ the heteronormative society looks down on it and this is exactly how you’re expressing such views by calling it “negative”, “felt like I was becoming gay”, “doesn’t feel good”... all of these connotations whew🙅🏽*♂️.
Looks like you have a fragile masculinity, buddy. You simply don’t want to look “gay” cus’ the heteronormative society looks down on it and this is exactly how you’re expressing such views by calling it “negative”, “felt like I was becoming gay”, “doesn’t feel good”... all of these connotations whew🙅🏽*♂️.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I've alwatas felt that way since I was a child too. But by phase I mean when I was actually feeling some urgency to have an actual same sex sexual experience. I am girl btw.
I've alwatas felt that way since I was a child too. But by phase I mean when I was actually feeling some urgency to have an actual same sex sexual experience. I am girl btw.
...if that makes sense?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Omg being gay is not a choice. Its either you have those feelings or not.
Omg being gay is not a choice. Its either you have those feelings or not.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Yeah same. But I feel like I have a choice?? But, the more I decide to “become more gay” it feels like the deeper I get and the less chance I have of having a choice.
...if that makes sense?
Yeah same. But I feel like I have a choice?? But, the more I decide to “become more gay” it feels like the deeper I get and the less chance I have of having a choice.
...if that makes sense?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I think it makes sense. But there isn't anything wrong in being bi or gay. Just don't rush into anything yet until you feel happier about being bi.
I think it makes sense. But there isn't anything wrong in being bi or gay. Just don't rush into anything yet until you feel happier about being bi.
Unless
I don’t think it’s possible to suddenly become “gay” after heartbreak lol
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