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i’d really appreciate help cause no one really answers my threads. there’s this guy i know who just DMd me saying he has a secret to tell me. i know he likes me 100% but i don’t like him back and i really don’t want him to tell me. how do i completely avoid it or change his mind?!!!
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(Original post by big-L)
i’d really appreciate help cause no one really answers my threads. there’s this guy i know who just DMd me saying he has a secret to tell me. i know he likes me 100% but i don’t like him back and i really don’t want him to tell me. how do i completely avoid it or change his mind?!!!
it will be healthy for both of you to confront the issue head on and explain to him you do not feel the same way.
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You can politely reject his offer if he asks you out and kindly explain him that you don't feel the same. I think it would be pretty insane to think that someone's opinion/feeling could be easily changed when they like someone. Once he understands how you feel, he probably won't bother you about it again.
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Hear him out and then lightly reject him. Explain that you don't see him in that light. It's not really something to feel so anxious about; if anything, he'll be feeling much more anxious then you.
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If he tells you that he likes you then you just need to say that you want to be friends but you don’t see him that way. Same if he asks you out.
What you don’t need to do is be hurtful or cruel about it. And don’t be laughing with your friends about it either.
It will have taken a great deal of courage for him to do this so be mature about it
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