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Ever had the perfect relationship that went wrong?

You're madly in love with your boyfriend/girlfriend and you're a perfect match for each other. You dream of the day when you can move in together and have kids etc.

But you're not together now. What happened? What went wrong?

Reply 1

22KT22

15

no but the 'perfect couple' at my school had the worst break up ever... was like brad and jennifer.

i hate the term the perfect relationship, there is no such thing and when people, mainly those outside of the relationship label it so, it becomes harder since you're trying to live up to it. when it breaks up its often harder to deal with as people think but we were perfect etc, or they were perfect. i hate that term and hate when my friends use it for me, mainly due to the perfect relationship at school, that fell apart since one of them was a good friend of mine and was really hurt by it all.

Reply 2

Barny

OP

17

You've kind of missed the point luv, thanks anyway though.

Reply 3

73337

18

A perfect relationship, by definition, does not go wrong.

Reply 4

22KT22

15

i know you were asking for people who have broken up and thought and believed they had the perfect relationship. just thought id go on a rant about it. sorry.

Reply 5

Spotty Dog

15

I had the perfect relationship with both my ex and my current partner. For the sole reason that we're (we were in regards to the ex), happy, and in my eyes that's all you need for something like that to be perfect. (Oh my days, sometimes I'm so bohemian I make myself sick. x.x)

The ex, we just grew apart. We're still best friends though.

Reply 6

*Star*Guitar*

17

73337

A perfect relationship, by definition, does not go wrong.

Reply 7

Barny

OP

17

73337

A perfect relationship, by definition, does not go wrong.

Please, if all I'm going to get from this thread is comments like that from idiots like you then mods, delete it now!

Reply 8

73337

18

Barny

Please, if all I'm going to get from this thread is comments like that from idiots like you then mods, delete it now!

There's no need to resort to personal insults.

Reply 9

nothingspek

3

Yes, well what I believed a perfect relationship to be at the moment and my only one to date. :yep:

Infidelity ended it though I'm afraid, after a two year long period.

Reply 10

Barny

OP

17

73337

There's no need to resort to personal insults.

Stop being a moron then. It's quite clear I'm talking about perfect in the implied sense rather than the literal sense, I'm not here to debate the definition of a perfect relationship either.

Reply 11

vale_farfallina

1

I thought he was "the one"..6 months of love, passione, future plans..everything perfect..
then I left home for my Erasmus year..the first 6 months went really good..then I got attached to ppl in England..I got confused and something got wrong with my relationship..He still loves me, but I've changed.. ppl around and friends also thought that we were the "perfect couple"..and that's a pity that we are in a kind of crisis now..

Maybe we weren't that perfect..

Reply 12

73337

18

Barny

Stop being a moron then. It's quite clear I'm talking about perfect in the implied sense rather than the literal sense, I'm not here to debate the definition of a perfect relationship either.

(You did it again) :confused:

Reply 13

DiscoPirate

10

Slightly off topic but all the long term couples from my old school have finished now, some had been together for up to four/five years (We're all 18 now) Almost all of them finished because one of them had shagged someone else. I guess it's the hormones, I wouldn't want to be tied down in my mid teens tbh, my longest relationship was 11 months and that was quite long enough.

Reply 14

Barny

OP

17

nothingspek

Yes, well what I believed a perfect relationship to be at the moment and my only one to date. :yep:

Infidelity ended it though I'm afraid, after a two year long period.

On your or his part?

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

OP, I know what you mean by this.

I had the perfect relationship. I really did. We were perfect for one another, we connected on every level. We could talk about anything and everything, we had the same viewpoints. We thought we were soul mates, made for each other. We wanted to marry each other, have children, grow old together. :redface:

Perfect.

It went wrong. Circumstances made it go wrong; parents, school, location. Everything was working against us. We couldn't physically be together anymore because we couldn't live in the same place. And it took its toll. And so, he ended it.

A part of me wonders if I'll ever be happy with anyone else, knowing what I had with him. But there's another part of me that thinks I won't need to be, that we'll get back together...eventually...

Reply 16

gee_shakedown

12

Barny

You're madly in love with your boyfriend/girlfriend and you're a perfect match for each other. You dream of the day when you can move in together and have kids etc.

But you're not together now. What happened? What went wrong?

Yep...

We thought we'd be together always, even planned it around Uni. However, someone else came along who I thought was better...such a mistake. So possibly ruined the best relationship of my life.

Reply 17

nothingspek

3

Barny

On your or his part?

His.

Reply 18

mitsabeeba

2

yes. we were about to be engaged. we were together 5 years.
we brokeup.. because...i dont know why.
he just, one day, started to ignore me, block my calls, etc.
we're in different countries at the moment so itmade it easier for him to cut me out from his life.
and until now, i still dont know what happened. still havnt heard from him. dont know the reasons. im a stranger to my own breakup.
and i feel like sh**