Had my first kiss yesterday but felt nothing?

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So I’m in first year of uni and I’d never kissed a guy
Yesterday I went out with my friends and we got pretty drunk and got more male attention than any of us have ever had
So this one guy then kissed me and we ended up making out for like 20 minutes but I realised that I felt absolutely nothing during it. I mean I don’t know if it was the alcohol or the fact that this boy was a total stranger but Idk I expected to at least be a little turned on but there was nothing.... is that normal??
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Yeah this is pretty normal. It sounds like you just hooked up with someone so there's not really gonna be much feeling there. You were just both pretty smashed and impulsively did it. I wouldn't be worried at all
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The first time I kissed my bf I didn't really feel anything and we were pretty bad at kissing. It takes practise and probably some chemistry for it to feel really good
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It's normal because you don't know this person and have no attachment to them. Kissing is more than just a physical act.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I’m in first year of uni and I’d never kissed a guy
Yesterday I went out with my friends and we got pretty drunk and got more male attention than any of us have ever had
So this one guy then kissed me and we ended up making out for like 20 minutes but I realised that I felt absolutely nothing during it. I mean I don’t know if it was the alcohol or the fact that this boy was a total stranger but Idk I expected to at least be a little turned on but there was nothing.... is that normal??
kissing is overrated..
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It's normal because you don't know this person and have no attachment to them. Kissing is more than just a physical act.
Okay, I got really worried that there was something wrong with me
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I’m in first year of uni and I’d never kissed a guy
Yesterday I went out with my friends and we got pretty drunk and got more male attention than any of us have ever had
So this one guy then kissed me and we ended up making out for like 20 minutes but I realised that I felt absolutely nothing during it. I mean I don’t know if it was the alcohol or the fact that this boy was a total stranger but Idk I expected to at least be a little turned on but there was nothing.... is that normal??
That's normal since you don't really like the guy plus the fact that he's a stranger.
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I feel so bad about myself for letting something like this happen I definitely never thought I'd be someone who randomly makes out with a guy in a club and I feel really weird about it right now (it was completely consensual btw) like I woke up this morning and just cringed at myself because of what I did
Luckily the guy hasn't tried to contact me since and we go to very different unis so won't see each other around but still I can't help but feel like I did something wrong even though I know I didn't
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Okay, I got really worried that there was something wrong with me
Got to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Stay safe but enjoy.
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I feel so bad about myself for letting something like this happen I definitely never thought I'd be someone who randomly makes out with a guy in a club and I feel really weird about it right now (it was completely consensual btw) like I woke up this morning and just cringed at myself because of what I did
Luckily the guy hasn't tried to contact me since and we go to very different unis so won't see each other around but still I can't help but feel like I did something wrong even though I know I didn't
you didn't do anything wrong. lol think getting turned on is more mental than physical. with kissing it's more the fact you are physically close/showing affection to someone you have a major crush on or in love with. you didn't have that for a random person you met in a bar. i wouldn't fret tho; it's not uncommon and lots of us have been there. if you're lucky, you'll have lots of average kisses.
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