strip club encountersWatch
that’s besides the point though!
since im pretty new to the scene, a lot has been overwhelming, not just physically, but emotionally too, along with rules and regulations and such.
last weekend i had 2 extremely awkward encounters. Firstly, my best friends DAD came in, i really dont know if he recognised me or not but he kept smirking at me and stuff like that, i tried to just ignore him but i sure as hell felt a little weird. i definitely cringed a few times tok 💀 Secondly, a professor from my university came in, luckily i don’t have him for any lectures as hes in the english department. he asked the bouncer to have me visit him at his table and asked me for a private lap dance, greeting me by name when i came over. i obliged to all events, mainly because it’s all part of my job, but i also was unsure whether i could refuse to be on the pole while he was there or not? i didn’t know so i just carried on with the whole thing.
1. what do i do/how do i deal with situations like the first one?
2. can he get in trouble for what he did? could i have refused to be on stage? how do i deal with this in the future?
any response is helpful unless negative or toxic - just looking for advice and support!!
(posted in a couple categories, wasn’t sure which!)