I have an acquaintance who is on my course. Shes interested in chinese culture and so am I. I thought we could be friends but she seems really weird. I don't want to negatively judge her but her attitude appears very arrogant and stuck up at times.
She barely talks to anyone except a clique she's a part of. She only talks to those people in that group and doesnt speak to anyone else. It's just a hello and that's it.
Shes one of the extreme left wingers at the university who is also a member of the student band at university. This band goes around the city or universities, drumming at protests. She also barely comes to university because shes always at concerts, political gossip groups or drumming at protests. I guess shes super rich because inky the very privileged can afford to never show up and protest all around the town.
She also has really hardcore views on everything left wing (I'm left wing too but not extreme) and a slight disagreement makes her judgemental towards other people.
She walks around the university, barely paying attention to anyone except herself or her friends. Once I met up with her and she didnt even say hi but simply asked if I had lunch and I said no gave me the free lunch passes because she was working for them that day and had left over passes left.
On top of it, she is one of those feminists who go around with banners which reads, it is my vagina hence my rules only. She also has a boyfriend whom she runs in everyone's faces as hes supposedly quite hot, hence she is like I'm so beautiful and sexy for him to choose me. Though I ve never seen him. I just dont know but she appears extremely cold and arrogant.
I ve tried to understand her but the more I see her, the more I feel she appears a bit stuck up and conceited. I assume shes 22 as she finished her IB in 2015.
What do you think? Should I give up?