how to breakup with a guy I just got with???Watch
How long did you like him before you told each other you liked each other? Honestly, as harsh as it is, if you don't like him you need to end things ASAP. The longer it goes on, the more it'll hurt. If you do like if you, but you're just getting stressed by him being pretty full-on, maybe just have a conversation with him about it? Just explain that you really like him, but you have other things in your life which require your time and attention. Maybe organise times that you'll keep open for each other, and times where you need to have alone time to focus on work. Just explain that it isn't because you don't like spending time with him, but that you need to focus on your work and it's feeling a bit intense.
That is a MAJOR red flag - it’s straight up manipulative. If he’s already acting like that in the beginning, there’s a chance he’ll get worse as it goes on. You shouldn’t feel bad - you aren’t doing anything wrong. He survived without you before, he can survive without you for a few hours.
I agree with you completely on your work coming first - my sister got into a relationship with a guy who was (sorry if this offends you) pretty needy, like this guy, and ended up messing up her A-levels because of all the time she was investing in him. I just don't think it's worth it if he won't consider how you're feeling in the relationship. If he's a nice guy, he may be a bit embarrassed, but he'll be considerate about how you're feeling. Personally though, from what you've said I'd be a little bit wary. Like Anonymous #2 said, it's a pretty unhealthy approach to a relationship. Couples that are too intense and full-on tend to crash and burn.
yeah I don't want that to happen as these exams are quite important. I text him when im not revising but I just end up ignoring him with isn't good. He also said something along the lines of: 'you're going to be doing less revision right?' just because I didn't text him as much as I usually do.
Personally doesn't sound to healthy to me, but I tend to veer away from guys who I view as clingy, but I know loads of girls who view it as attentive so idk. If you're getting stressed by it, I'd suggest talking to him about it. If he doesn't respond well, it might just be best to end things with him.
Show him your work timetable, and explain to him calmly that you'll be free to message / meet up / speak during lunch or a given time of the day, but your work comes first and education is important.
If he cannot respect your decision on that, then mention again it's important for you and he needs to respect your decisions.
If an argument occurs, walk away. Do not encourage or increase the tension that is there, because this will lead to a brutal breakup / something hurtful.