Bf is hard to please / gone off me?

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He always has been quite hard to make orgasm. He said it's biological and he can't help it. Same as the amount of times he can orgasm in a period of time. But is this true? I think its conditioned, he does take a while to masturbate and goes fast. I also think he isn't sexually interested in me anymore.

He hadn't masturbated for 2 days before, this weekend (ldr meet every other weekend) he had 3 orgasms like 7 ish hours apart. On sunday afternoon (8 hrs after last orgasm) when we woke up he told me he had morning wood and he gets horny in the mornings. So I try initiating and he rejected me. He said just cos he has a boner doesn't mean he's horny (even tho he just said he's horny in the mornings). Later that day he initiated me giving a bj and I was doing it for ages and he wasn't finishing so I gave up and he finished himself off. He said this was why he didnt want me to do it earlier that day cos he didn't think he could ***. He said 4 times in one weekend was a lot when he might not do it that much in a week, and getting boners later that day hurt. However he said he masturbates when he's uncontrollably horny, and in the past he seemed very keen for sexual activity with me (but always hard to please).

I am worried he doesn't like me anymore sexually, I asked but he denied it. He is 18 years old, I pointed out that most 18 yr olds have a rep for being horny and I was disappointed. I seem to now have higher sex drive than him and I'm not a very horny gal. Any advice???
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He always has been quite hard to make orgasm. He said it's biological and he can't help it. Same as the amount of times he can orgasm in a period of time. But is this true? I think its conditioned, he does take a while to masturbate and goes fast. I also think he isn't sexually interested in me anymore.

He hadn't masturbated for 2 days before, this weekend (ldr meet every other weekend) he had 3 orgasms like 7 ish hours apart. On sunday afternoon (8 hrs after last orgasm) when we woke up he told me he had morning wood and he gets horny in the mornings. So I try initiating and he rejected me. He said just cos he has a boner doesn't mean he's horny (even tho he just said he's horny in the mornings). Later that day he initiated me giving a bj and I was doing it for ages and he wasn't finishing so I gave up and he finished himself off. He said this was why he didnt want me to do it earlier that day cos he didn't think he could ***. He said 4 times in one weekend was a lot when he might not do it that much in a week, and getting boners later that day hurt. However he said he masturbates when he's uncontrollably horny, and in the past he seemed very keen for sexual activity with me (but always hard to please).

I am worried he doesn't like me anymore sexually, I asked but he denied it. He is 18 years old, I pointed out that most 18 yr olds have a rep for being horny and I was disappointed. I seem to now have higher sex drive than him and I'm not a very horny gal. Any advice???
maybe you're not good in bed that it's why.
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He always has been quite hard to make orgasm. He said it's biological and he can't help it. Same as the amount of times he can orgasm in a period of time. But is this true? I think its conditioned, he does take a while to masturbate and goes fast. I also think he isn't sexually interested in me anymore.

He hadn't masturbated for 2 days before, this weekend (ldr meet every other weekend) he had 3 orgasms like 7 ish hours apart. On sunday afternoon (8 hrs after last orgasm) when we woke up he told me he had morning wood and he gets horny in the mornings. So I try initiating and he rejected me. He said just cos he has a boner doesn't mean he's horny (even tho he just said he's horny in the mornings). Later that day he initiated me giving a bj and I was doing it for ages and he wasn't finishing so I gave up and he finished himself off. He said this was why he didnt want me to do it earlier that day cos he didn't think he could ***. He said 4 times in one weekend was a lot when he might not do it that much in a week, and getting boners later that day hurt. However he said he masturbates when he's uncontrollably horny, and in the past he seemed very keen for sexual activity with me (but always hard to please).

I am worried he doesn't like me anymore sexually, I asked but he denied it. He is 18 years old, I pointed out that most 18 yr olds have a rep for being horny and I was disappointed. I seem to now have higher sex drive than him and I'm not a very horny gal. Any advice???
he might be gay?
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he might be gay?
I doubt it, he used to watch lesbian porn and he is and definitely used to be easily aroused by me. And says about natural biological attraction to girls as a hetero when we discussed cheating and attraction.

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maybe you're not good in bed that it's why.
Ooh no I thought my bjs were good by now, I've had a lot of practise, there's not much to them, and I said he can give me feedback whenever but he says they're good
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Ooh no I thought my bjs were good by now, I've had a lot of practise, there's not much to them, and I said he can give me feedback whenever but he says they're good
I don't know then. I hope that you're good at it!!
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I doubt it, he used to watch lesbian porn and he is and definitely used to be easily aroused by me. And says about natural biological attraction to girls as a hetero when we discussed cheating and attraction.


Ooh no I thought my bjs were good by now, I've had a lot of practise, there's not much to them, and I said he can give me feedback whenever but he says they're good
ah. yeah, not gay then. not sure what the problem is then.
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The reason was porn 😖
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I doubt it, he used to watch lesbian porn and he is and definitely used to be easily aroused by me. And says about natural biological attraction to girls as a hetero when we discussed cheating and attraction.


Ooh no I thought my bjs were good by now, I've had a lot of practise, there's not much to them, and I said he can give me feedback whenever but he says they're good
Just a thought, but what about your needs? Does he even care? He seems to spend most of his time trying to make you feel guilty.

I would keep half an eye on shopping around. Find someone else you can click with, then dump his sorry ass.
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The reason was porn 😖
what do you mean?
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I seem to now have higher sex drive than him and I'm not a very horny gal. Any advice???
Differences in sex drive can be a problem, and if a guy feels pressured it can only add to the problem.
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what do you mean?
Well he had been watching porn basically since I noticed he was less interested in me, and we both agreed it had caused negative effects on our sex lives
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