Hello,
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months. I still go to university and don't work, while he has a good paying job in the City. He doesn't pay rent either (not going into detail), so he is left with plenty of disposable income at the end of the month. Until a while ago we'd split 40:60 for me, but lately he's started asking me to split the bill EVERY single time. I don't understand why cause I am very considerate and offer to pay most of the times, he always accepts gladly. Every time he paid in full, I'd always pay the next time. I also take the initiative to do different things and activities and will sometimes offer to pay for him, too. He didn't even organise anything for Valentines day and didn't even get me a flower! I find it humiliating when every single time he says 'Do you want to split it?'. My friends and family say it's because he's not that into me and doesn't really see a future with me, I don't know what to say really, cause apart from this it's going well and he's loving and caring. I don't feel valued as a girlfriend, as in he doesn't care about making a good impression to me and I feel taken for granted. What do you say? I feel like this is creating some resentment and I need to talk to him - how should I approach the topic?
Thank you!