What does my boyfriend mean?Watch
Maybe you can both get over these hurdles together. Tell him you wish you could start all over again, as you care for him. If he cares for you, this will have a positive effect. Talk it over with love and understanding.
If he was done with the relationship he would tell you, so stay positive!
I have asked him and he still wants me but emphasises the amount of work we have to do now, so I just think he feels very disheartened
doesn't mean it's not possible to sort things out though..nor that he doesn't want to
but TALK to him! that's probably what got you guys into this mess to begin with. You wont know what the other is thinking if you don't ask and have it out