stressing about boyfriend and his ex

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Hey, sorry this might be quite long but I’ve had some stuff weighing down on me for a while and needed to get it all out. I’ve recently got together with my first ever serious boyfriend, however we knew each other for about a year before. He’s been practically all of my firsts and he’s super loving and caring and tells me all the right things. However, when we got together he had just gotten out of a four year serious relationship- they even lived together- and it was cause she was cheating. I can’t help but feel like a long term rebound and it also makes me anxious that he’s looking at his other female friends like he looked at me prior to getting with me. I can’t stop stressing about his ex and feeling upset that he’s already done everything with someone who he probably liked way more than me. How do I stop my insecurities ruining the relationship or am I being reasonable?
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Maybe talk to him about it because it would give you reassurance and he can have an idea of how youre feeling
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The only way you'd avoid stressing about what boys did with their ex is to only ever date people who'd never been in a relationship and that is totally impractical!

He could have stayed single, he could have chosen anyone, but he chose you! Enjoy what you have and don't overthink it
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