What's their problem? Psychologist?

So they belittled me, put me down, made fun of me.

They just say anything and bad mouth me behind my back.

They dont wish to listen and make up assumptions.

They have an arrogance where they think they are right and no everything.

I am an east target.

Reply 1

username5058598

Just ignore them, these kind of people are not worth your time.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

They control me and also dim my light.

If i run a successful business, one of them starts getting aggressive.

I'm different and they may hate me succeeding for their pride.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by Deborah247

Just ignore them, these kind of people are not worth your time.

I am I just wish to know their psychology.

Reply 4

Surnia

Who is 'they'?

Don't be an easy target. Bullies are cowards and will pick on someone to mask their own insecurities; stand up to them.

Reply 5

mgi

Original post by Anonymous

I am I just wish to know their psychology.

The psychology is simple and always the same; if you are successful you will attract jealous troll types! Why? because you have exposed their weaknesses by being ambitious and successful. What you must not do is alliw these people ti get in your head or get away with being rude or toxic to your face! Apart from that-ignore!

Reply 6

ageshallnot

Original post by Surnia

Who is 'they'?

Don't be an easy target. Bullies are cowards and will pick on someone to mask their own insecurities; stand up to them.

I'm guessing it's his family.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

No it's people in the community.

Reply 8

Zain_Ahmed

Original post by Anonymous

I am I just wish to know their psychology.

The information you have provided is a bit limited for anyone to analyse them..
But here are my guesses
1.) they could be jealous of you.. Maybe because you seem happy or such, and they arent as happy, so may take their stress out on you as displacement
2.) They like to put other people down in order for themselves to look powerful - Maybe they had strict parenting during childhood which can lead to an authoritarian personality.. Try the F-scale on them..

These are just guesses, not sure if they even are correct as I am still studying psychology... Good luck

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Really sorry to hear of this. You deserve kindness and respect. Cut these bullies off and if you need friends I would suggest the meet up app to find others who are kind. I hope this helps :smile: