I'm scared I'm going to get ghosted again

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So I'm seeing this guy, we've been seeing each other for 4 weeks. It was going really well so far, we speak everyday and when we're together, it feels like we've known each other for ages. We get on really well, he's very romantic, and we're both happy when we're together. So 2 days ago we were arranging another date, he invited me to his house this weekend for the first time and we talked about how excited we were to see each other again. He also said he loved seeing me.

After that, he left my message on read, although he never reads my messages without replying, I thought fair enough because it was a message he couldn't really reply to. Last night I messaged him again just to check he was okay and he read it and ignored me again. Maybe I'm overthinking, but I've been ghosted before and it's hurtful. I didn't think he'd do that he seems so nice and lovely and I thought everything was going well. I just don't want to be ghosted again.

I don't know what to do, but I find it hard to believe he'd actually ghost me when everything was going so well. I don't know what to do, and I don't want to harass him. Any advice?
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What was in your message that he couldn't reply to? You've used the anonymous function so might as well say, and it looks to be the trigger for his change in behaviour.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I'm seeing this guy, we've been seeing each other for 4 weeks. It was going really well so far, we speak everyday and when we're together, it feels like we've known each other for ages. We get on really well, he's very romantic, and we're both happy when we're together. So 2 days ago we were arranging another date, he invited me to his house this weekend for the first time and we talked about how excited we were to see each other again. He also said he loved seeing me.

After that, he left my message on read, although he never reads my messages without replying, I thought fair enough because it was a message he couldn't really reply to. Last night I messaged him again just to check he was okay and he read it and ignored me again. Maybe I'm overthinking, but I've been ghosted before and it's hurtful. I didn't think he'd do that he seems so nice and lovely and I thought everything was going well. I just don't want to be ghosted again.

I don't know what to do, but I find it hard to believe he'd actually ghost me when everything was going so well. I don't know what to do, and I don't want to harass him. Any advice?
i think you should message him and say hi oh btw i can't come over because your dad and i have been seeing each other
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Hey Gooner, don't worry there's no such thing as ghosts, although one time I was at the Arsenal game and I thought I saw the ghost of Herbert Chapman, I was ecstatic, however it was just some gooner in a fancy suit. Anyway don't panic! Even if they were real, what they gonna do, say boo and float away? The Wimps!
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Anyone who ghosts instead of politely declaring disinterest has had their maturity expired.

I personally like my goods fully functional. You?
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Anyone who ghosts instead of politely declaring disinterest has had their maturity expired.

I personally like my goods fully functional. You?
shut up, you neek.
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shut up, you neek.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I'm seeing this guy, we've been seeing each other for 4 weeks. It was going really well so far, we speak everyday and when we're together, it feels like we've known each other for ages. We get on really well, he's very romantic, and we're both happy when we're together. So 2 days ago we were arranging another date, he invited me to his house this weekend for the first time and we talked about how excited we were to see each other again. He also said he loved seeing me.

After that, he left my message on read, although he never reads my messages without replying, I thought fair enough because it was a message he couldn't really reply to. Last night I messaged him again just to check he was okay and he read it and ignored me again. Maybe I'm overthinking, but I've been ghosted before and it's hurtful. I didn't think he'd do that he seems so nice and lovely and I thought everything was going well. I just don't want to be ghosted again.

I don't know what to do, but I find it hard to believe he'd actually ghost me when everything was going so well. I don't know what to do, and I don't want to harass him. Any advice?
It sounds like he has either had a better offer from someone else or his gf has turned up back at home.
If he has decided not to continue seeing you he should tell you.. ghosting is the cowards way and really sh!t for the one ghosted
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