sometimes i genuinely hate my bf for no reason at all - normal or nah?

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my relationships/feelings for people are never stable. they
fluctuate between love and hate. like right now i hate him, and i don't want him anywhere near me, and i don't know why, and i don't know how to explain this him.

can anyone relate?
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my relationships/feelings for people are never stable. they
fluctuate between love and hate. like right now i hate him, and i don't want him anywhere near me, and i don't know why, and i don't know how to explain this him.

can anyone relate?
It's certainly not normal, so you need to see a doctor. And, it's surprising he puts up with this.
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It's certainly not normal, so you need to see a doctor. And, it's surprising he puts up with this.
how rude. that's not what i'm asking. i'm asking if it's normal in a relationship - as in is he the problem/are my feelings for him not strong enough.
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Not gonna lie I'm the same, I always end up saying horrible things to him and aggravating him so we'll fight, then 10 minutes later I love him more than anything (I'm also a guy)
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Not gonna lie I'm the same, I always end up saying horrible things to him and aggravating him so we'll fight, then 10 minutes later I love him more than anything (I'm also a guy)
that's what i do as well! but sometimes it lasts hours, or even days. i provoke fights, then hate him, then i love him again.
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how rude. that's not what i'm asking. i'm asking if it's normal in a relationship - as in is he the problem/are my feelings for him not strong enough.
I gave an accurate, and honest, answer to the question you posed. If you weren't prepared for answers you wouldn't like then perhaps you shouldn't have asked the question.
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I gave an accurate, and honest, answer to the question you posed. If you weren't prepared for answers you wouldn't like then perhaps you shouldn't have asked the question.
no, you're being rude for no reason. stop trying to make me look crazy. maybe he's the problem, ever thought of that?
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Look up BPD
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(Original post by Ciel.)
my relationships/feelings for people are never stable. they
fluctuate between love and hate. like right now i hate him, and i don't want him anywhere near me, and i don't know why, and i don't know how to explain this him.

can anyone relate?
You clearly suffer from bipolar disorder. Seek professional help, you might need to be sectioned.
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Look up BPD
i know what bpd is, but i don't have it.
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You clearly suffer from bipolar disorder. Seek professional help, you might need to be sectioned.
you might need to be banned for trolling.
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you might need to be banned for trolling.
How do you know you don’t have bipolar disorder? Have you got yourself checked out?
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i know what bpd is, but i don't have it.

you might need to be banned for trolling.
Listen mate I know that NHS Doctors can sometimes be "bad" but you might wanna get some advice from them even if it doesn't work. those anons might be right
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How old are you? I'm guessing like 15...:rofl3:
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How do you know you don’t have bipolar disorder? Have you got yourself checked out?
something like that. i don't have bipolar, or borderline.
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Just a note that BPD doesn't stand for bipolar it stands for borderline personality disorder :yep:
I didn’t call it that hehe. Some Anonymous user posted it. Not me though. I know the difference! 😂👍
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I didn’t call it that hehe. Some Anonymous user posted it. Not me though. I know the difference! 😂👍
Yeh sorry I just realised
Just used to people confusing them as someone that has it, my bad :getmecoat:
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Listen mate I know that NHS Doctors can sometimes be "bad" but you might wanna get some advice from them even if it doesn't work. those anons might be right
ugh, they're all useless. nhs and private ones.
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How old are you? I'm guessing like 15...:rofl3:
i'm not in the mood to **** with trolls.
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Hope you get things sorted ciel :hugs: it does sound a lot like splitting but usually for me at least it happens for a reason even if the reason is really minor or potentially imagined
It's not up to people to say what you do or don't have, only you and medical professionals know that, I think websites like mind and stuff have advice for coping with things like splitting though so that might be worth a look
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I personally dont think it is normal in a relationship, but that's just my opinion.
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