would this count as losing virginity. (gay)

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so me and this boy have given and received oral sex twice. from what I have seen online it's kind of a 50/50. some people say it is losing virginity because you have technically had sex, while some say only anal counts.

I dont want "only you can define virginity" I want straight up what you think.
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I personally feel the line is anal sex in M/M relationships. It's the closest equivalent to the heteronormative definition of losing one's virginity.
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so me and this boy have given and received oral sex twice. from what I have seen online it's kind of a 50/50. some people say it is losing virginity because you have technically had sex, while some say only anal counts.

I dont want "only you can define virginity" I want straight up what you think.
i kinda agree with sinfonietta's view. i mean some gay guys don't do anal at all, and they'd consider any sexual act as losing their virginity. so it really is a personal thing. (i'm gay, too) - but that's less common
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I’m bi but I lost my virginity to a guy and we just did oral and handjobs etc. I’d personally count that as losing virginity and I don’t enjoy anal at all and so don’t do it often. There are gay men out there that don’t do anal, so it’s up to you what you think.
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