Well all jokes aside, when you hurry to lose your virginity just because other people can it ends up in a very very very bad situation, so I'd say wait for someone youre honestly interested in, firstly if they genuinly like you they would cope up with you in any sexual consideration, second of all they would take their time with you as well and most importantly wont make fun of you if youre too prepared or confused as to what should be done.
Another adivce is if you cant follow the previous advice , is that fake it till you make it lol
i mean youve heard that before, so like fake confidence and just walk up to some girl youre interested in and ask her out, im not saying directly as to fu-k im just saying be nice and continue.
Or what i usually do is (ik its lame but i get sm options lol) text them, well if you lack confidence in person and you just wanna lose your virginity, then ngl the best thing you can do is find a girl whos a major *****, like i mean a MAJOR slut and text her lmaoooooo.
My first second base was hestitant but an amazing fuc-ing story to remember, so even if you dont have confidence it doesnt matter cuz you got it G, youre attractive and **** so whats holding you up? Go for it!!