My boyfriend and I had a fight, now it’s really awkward. What do I do?

If he can't fully make-up with you after a lover's tiff then there's no way that you should stay with someone that doesn't allow water to pass under the bridge to this extent.

Sometimes fragile feelings and emotions need a little more time, patience and care to sort out.

A couple of days ago, my boyf and I had a fight about something really small. We did something together and I made the mistake of telling my close friends and my boyf told me that his friends found out too. During the argument, he told me “the trust I thought we had is now broken.” Obviously I made a big mistake of trusting my close friends and I sent him a message apologising and explaining everything. There was some misunderstanding in the situation and found out some people were lying, part of it was out of my control. Regardless I told him I was deeply sorry. We talked on call after, he accepted my apology and said sorry for accusing me of things during the argument. However the call was really awkward and was really silent. The next day, our conversations was beginning to get back into normal but I felt he wasn’t too interested in talking to me. I also feel that there is nothing to talk about. I hate myself for it but I don’t know what to do. We are supposed to see each other tomorrow, I asked him if it was still happening and he said “yeahhh”. I want to know if he’s still mad at me because it’s really awkward when we do talk. I feel as if there’s a barrier and nothing will be the same again. What should I do?

And a good way to do that is for her to act as if the argument never happened when they meet tomorrow.

A couple of days ago, my boyf and I had a fight about something really small. We did something together and I made the mistake of telling my close friends and my boyf told me that his friends found out too. During the argument, he told me “the trust I thought we had is now broken.” Obviously I made a big mistake of trusting my close friends and I sent him a message apologising and explaining everything. There was some misunderstanding in the situation and found out some people were lying, part of it was out of my control. Regardless I told him I was deeply sorry. We talked on call after, he accepted my apology and said sorry for accusing me of things during the argument. However the call was really awkward and was really silent. The next day, our conversations was beginning to get back into normal but I felt he wasn’t too interested in talking to me. I also feel that there is nothing to talk about. I hate myself for it but I don’t know what to do. We are supposed to see each other tomorrow, I asked him if it was still happening and he said “yeahhh”. I want to know if he’s still mad at me because it’s really awkward when we do talk. I feel as if there’s a barrier and nothing will be the same again. What should I do?

If he can't fully make-up with you after a lover's tiff then there's no way that you should stay with someone that doesn't allow water to pass under the bridge to this extent.

When you see him tomorrow, you should act as if the argument never happened. See how he acts. Hopefully he will follow your cue and start acting as if it never happened.

If he expects to have a relationship in which there are never any arguments then he has totally unrealistic expectations.
If he falls out of love with you over this one argument, then his love was as strong as a glass of tap water.

If he expects you to ALWAYS act how he wants, then he's got another thing coming. And it's time he grew up and started being more tolerant.

who do you think you are?
if she acts like she doesnt care that would only offend and make the boyf feel more unwanted and as if the whole situation doesnt mean anything to the gf. it is normal for people to have arguments and some people deal with it better than others, clearly the bf is unable to forgive the gf faster than others and he is still thinking about the situation. if he believes its a breach of trust then it is very serious to him. and the gf shouldnt necessarily brush it off and keep in mind that she did and although not intentionally, has hurt the bf and needs to make up for what she has done. awkward or not, you can find a way to reassure that the gf is trustworthy and you guys can still be together and that this is a inconvinience that you two are able to overcome.

Burying an unfinished argument is never a good way to deal with things.

That is not burying an unfunished argument. It IS ending it.
It's being too negative.
Negativity is drip feeding poison into a relationship.

The argument, or fight, is unfinished though. Maybe you just stamp your foot and call and end to emotional issues when it suits you, but some people can't.
Being too negative? Maybe by your standards but you aren't him; you don't have his emotions, everyone acts differently and some will just bounce back, some won't. Dwelling on things might not be a good idea, but just brushing them under the carpet when one or both parties aren't ready to move on will not make the situation better. This might take time and one or both parties should be allowed the time needed to get through this.

Er, opening line of the opening post says "my boyf and I had a fight about something really small".

According to her, yes. But she's not the one hurt or upset, he is.

He's stated to her that he feels the trust is broken. Clearly, trust is a massive issue in every relationship and isn't a small matter.

Unfortunately, we don't know the specifics, so no one here can judge if he has a right to be as upset as he is. Bot for him, its a bigger issue than what she has portrayed for her - clearly already a misalignment.

If he feels the trust is broken, then she has to address that point if she wants to mend the relationship.

According to her, yes. But she's not the one hurt or upset, he is.

He's stated to her that he feels the trust is broken. Clearly, trust is a massive issue in every relationship and isn't a small matter.

Unfortunately, we don't know the specifics, so no one here can judge if he has a right to be as upset as he is. Bot for him, its a bigger issue than what she has portrayed for her - clearly already a misalignment.

If he feels the trust is broken, then she has to address that point if she wants to mend the relationship.

With any luck, the boyfriend will start acting like a mature, level headed, caring, loving boyfriend and treat this as water under the bridge now. And the 2 of them will move on with their relationship...

Do you not realise that a lot of people don't think or act in the same way as you do? You see the world in black and white: he's wrong, she isn't. He must do this, etc. Life isn't like that; most of us aren't robots, most of us have feelings and emotions that can't just be swept away and replaced with other peoples' version of how things should be.