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Explicit question about unprotected sex...

Anon or delete as this is embarrasing!

Okay, I'm on the pill now, so I'm going to stop using condoms with my boyfriend soon.

My question is about the cum... if he cums inside you, does it all just run out? Straight away, or does it take a while? Is sex VERY messy without a condom, or not really?

Will it leave many stains on the bedsheets, do you need things on hand to clean up, or am I being silly and the amount of cum negligible anyway?

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Anonymous
Anon or delete as this is embarrasing!

Okay, I'm on the pill now, so I'm going to stop using condoms with my boyfriend soon.

My question is about the cum... if he cums inside you, does it all just run out? Straight away, or does it take a while? Is sex VERY messy without a condom, or not really?

Will it leave many stains on the bedsheets, do you need things on hand to clean up, or am I being silly and the amount of cum negligible anyway?

It takes a while, just don't stand up for too long. Wipe yourself off with a towel after a sex (maybe use the toilet if you need to) and you'll be fine. Or if you were on top during sex then do what I do and sit on your bf, it'll drip all over him :evil:
If you're on top then PLEASE get off kind of sideways, just roll off. Don't dribble it all over the poor guy. :frown:
Reply 3
It takes a couple of minutes to start running out. Just keep some tissues by the bed and you'll be fine, or use the loo after sex.
Reply 4
Either keep tissues on hand, or leg it to the loo :smile:
Reply 5
Get tissues, cough, problem solved.
Haha yeah it's messy. Keep a toilet roll by the bed - you can feel it when it starts um.. moving :p: If you're lying down it probably won't go anyway (well you might get a trickle) - but be ready when you get up later.. it can literally just run straight out of you.. One time I got up the next morning to go to the bathroom and yeah it really does drip out. Thankfully, I was in the bathroom, so it didn't matter.

you probably won't make a mess on the bedsheets if you can erm.. separate without getting any anywhere.
Okay, I'm on the pill now, so I'm going to stop using condoms with my boyfriend soon.

My question is about the cum... if he cums inside you, does it all just run out? Straight away, or does it take a while? Is sex VERY messy without a condom, or not really?

It can be very messy, just depends on how much is there, more times he came per day less will come out. If you stand up/on top it will come out fast: gravity, so you best just lying there flat and drying yourself off. Always keep tissues etc at hand and if not make him go get them so your not running for your life.

Will it leave many stains on the bedsheets, do you need things on hand to clean up, or am I being silly and the amount of cum negligible anyway?

Don't ever have black bedding!
Dream_Catcher
Don't ever have black bedding!


Haha! Well we do tend to have black bedding but tbh if it comes out it just kinda looks like a wet patch as if you had spilled water!
Anonymous
Haha! Well we do tend to have black bedding but tbh if it comes out it just kinda looks like a wet patch as if you had spilled water!


Yes until it drys... When theres a huge white mark. I'm glad his parent didn't see it :p:
Reply 10
Keep using condoms. Trust me when it runs out it is such a horrible feeling... ew
Be on top. Then, once he has come, stay there for a while. Always works.

Other than that, we just get some tissue, and avoid the wet patch when sleeping, then wash them in the morning (laundry at 2am? No thanks.).
Reply 12
Yeah it is messy, just make sure you've got some tissues or something. Or run to the toilet as soon as you stand up :p: it is rather unpleasant when it's running down your legs

Oh and it will stain if you've got darker sheets so beware!
Stupid question, if it all runs out, then how do you get pregnant?
Reply 14
Anonymous
Stupid question, if it all runs out, then how do you get pregnant?




Because it doesn't ALL run out. Just most of it. You only need one sperm to get pregnant.
Anonymous
Stupid question, if it all runs out, then how do you get pregnant?


Oh dear. It doesn't all run out, plenty of it is propelled towards the uterus, but not all.

Anyway OP, just chuck some knickers on and dash to the toilet to clean yourself up.
Reply 16
I thought it was absorbed by the female body for nutrition
i find it gets very messy, but my bf tends to pull out instead of do it inside me.. which usually means a bit gets on the sheets ahh!
but then if it's inside, it's not very nice when it all leaks out
no winning really lol
Reply 18
Ughhhh, the clean-up. People say it spoils the moment to put a condom on, but personally I think it ruins it when you have to run to the bathroom straight away afterwards ...

Keep tissues nearby.
Reply 19
Ice_Queen
Be on top. Then, once he has come, stay there for a while. Always works.

Other than that, we just get some tissue, and avoid the wet patch when sleeping, then wash them in the morning (laundry at 2am? No thanks.).


i was thinking aren't there chances of her becoming pregnant