Terrible gynaecology appointment - what do I do now?Watch
Back in November I went to the doctor because I was having pain during sex and it got to the point where it actually ended my relationship. The doctor referred me to a gynaecology clinic, which I just had the appointment for today. However, all that happened was I explained my symptoms to her, had a physical exam, and she told me that everything was fine and I could go home. No advice, no further treatment, nothing. Obviously this made me pretty upset as this issue has really brought down my self esteem, and I was really hoping to fix it, or at least find a reason. But now I feel like I don’t have any answers and there’s nothing more I can do. I understand that the NHS is severely stressed out at the moment due to the corona virus, but I just feel as if I went through all that waiting and anxiety for nothing. Where do I go from here? I just want to fix this
I’m female and I hate big peen. I always prefer 5.5” and below
You might not be able to take something big
I had the exact same thing my ex wasn't particularly big but I was literally crying after sex it was so painful, I went to a gynaecologist and all she came back with was that I was slightly dry and just petite as thats the way I am. She said the most important thing was to use lots of lube and to relax as much as you can and do less deep positions etc.
Foreplay helps if you can’t get any lube. Doing more foreplay such as nipple teasing and oral and lots of kissing and play fighting with hand moments and dirty talk will make you wet. The wetness will help and make you less dry and then any position should be possible