Girls - Un-charismatic guys

Girls, do you find guys that arent very charismatic attractive, I mean can a girl still fancy a guy who has little charisma and isnt overly confident in themselves?

In the grand scheme of things.. is it a huge turn off? Even if they are not shy?

Stupid question, I know, but It will be interesting to read the replys..

Reply 1

Freud

14

charisma is important.

Reply 2

DisgruntledMoth

14

It's the only type of guy I'm attracted to.

They all want blondes with a personality to match, though, and then complain when none of them take an interest.

Reply 3

pamelaa

17

Different strokes for different folks n that

Reply 4

sparkplug

11

Define charisma...

Reply 5

balloon_parade

14

I could find someone attractive who wasn't charismatic sure, but as far as a relationship is concerned I really quite like being with a charismatic person! (Isn't a must though!)

Everyone is different though aren't they. :smile:

Reply 6

mollymustard

14

I think having charisma is an obvious bonus, but if a guy did not have it intially I would still give them a chance and would not be too put off by it etc.

Reply 7

brighthw

what do you mean by charisma? Definition needed

Reply 8

mitsabeeba

2

i definitely like a guy with a bit of spunk (not like that)

Reply 9

armageddonbride

8

Charisma - very different in different people.

Reply 10

Reflexive

14

"rare trait found in certain human personalities usually including extreme charm and a 'magnetic' quality of personality and/or appearance along with innate and powerfully sophisticated personal communicability and persuasiveness."

what girl wouldn't want a guy like this? not many of them about though I'd imagine

Reply 11

Poshtotty

8

Anonymous

Girls, do you find guys that arent very charismatic attractive, I mean can a girl still fancy a guy who has little charisma and isnt overly confident in themselves?

In the grand scheme of things.. is it a huge turn off? Even if they are not shy?

Stupid question, I know, but It will be interesting to read the replys..

Well charisma can be the ability to inspire people and/or a personal attractiveness due to shared interests.

So most people can be seen as charismatic by different people. A girl who really liked her sports would probably think that any guy who knew all the rules of football, had a real passion for it etc is charismatic. Whereas a girl who hated football would not think he had charisma.

I think it would only be a turn off if the guy had no personality i.e no interests, no opinions etc.

Reply 12

trance addict

18

mitsabeeba

i definitely like a guy with a bit of spunk (not like that)

so it can go on your face (har har)

:ninja:

whoops oooh you meant not like that :p:

Reply 13

..J'adore..

everyones different

sometimes a non charismatic guy is really nice and romantic

definately a must for most girls

so no, isn't always a turn off

over charismatic men are a turn off

Reply 14

OnlyMe!

16

Charisma is generally attractive. Not essential though...

Reply 15

Kink

14

I like charisma; that sparkly-eyed, relaxed conversationalist who doesn't talk much but you know could turn a line sometimes.

Reply 16

huangcjz

Reflexive

"rare trait found in certain human personalities usually including extreme charm and a 'magnetic' quality of personality and/or appearance along with innate and powerfully sophisticated personal communicability and persuasiveness."
~~what girl~~ who wouldn't want a guy like this? not many of them about though I'd imagine

OnlyMe!

Charisma is generally attractive. Not essential though...

It depends more on the individual person I guess. Charm is good as long as it's not overused/abused to manipulate people, and overconfidence/cockiness can be offputting.

Reply 17

Casserole

12

You have to wait until you're 30, they're 30, you're loaded and their biological clock is ticking I'm afraid. Sucks to be non charismatic.

Reply 18

xJessx

18

You don't have to be charismatic but it helps. Confidence is more important. I went out with a lad once who was terrified of me cos I was a girl and spent the whole night mumbling and glancing at my boobs. I was not impressed.

Reply 19

Reflexive

14

xJessx

You don't have to be charismatic but it helps. Confidence is more important. I went out with a lad once who was terrified of me cos I was a girl and spent the whole night mumbling and glancing at my boobs. I was not impressed.

You should have took him under your breast

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