Advice needed. (No judgement please)

Hi hun x

If I was you I would tell him before it’s too late! Tell him you’re being tested because you might have one and advise him to be tested, if he is kind he’ll understand plus if you get tested together you can turn it into a game.

Imo your current boyfriend could even have something

You could even word it differently like “I’ve been thinking about sex but I would like us both to get tested together before we have it” then he’ll have no idea.

But if you have something you must tell him by law.

Best of luck x

Thanks. I think this is what I’ll do

I don’t know if I have anything yet. Still waiting for tests

Why gonorea though? Did you have symptoms shortly after your sexual activities with your ex, and symptoms like green discharge, pain, bleeding between periods, peeing more often?

Which kind of test is it that you got if you don’t mind me asking as they’re many forms of STIs / STDs and sadly oral is still classed as sex which can give you different sexual transmissions also when did you last have it if you don’t mind me asking as some take weeks to months to show on results
Thought oral stis have more symptoms such as lumps like herpesviruses

Why gonorea though? Did you have symptoms shortly after your sexual activities with your ex, and symptoms like green discharge, pain, bleeding between periods, peeing more often?

More than a year ago. I’ve got the oral swabs and the V swabs