So, this'll be a long one so sorry. I dated my ex for a year, but it was long distance which eventually got the better of us - we weren't really talking, no phone calls when we said there were going to be etc. So I ended it and met a new guy, who I really get on with and enjoy being with, my family likes him (they haven't met him but they think hes good for me) and the best thing is hes not long distance, so I have him around most of the time. My problem is that I miss my ex and the way he made me feel - I don't think I want to get back with him, but I know I'm not over him and won't be for a while. My current BF said that he didn't see any reason for us to break up as I was with him and not my ex, but he doesn't really understand because i'm his first relationship. Now a couple of days ago my ex texted me (after a period of completely no contact) asking whether I was safe in the current virus situation. We've been talking since then completely normally mostly like friends would, but occasionally it's ended up being flirting which I should stop really but didn't. I suppose what I'm asking is two things: 1) do I go ahead and break up with my BF REGARDLESS of my ex because I've been (and am being) unfair and 2) what should I do about my ex? (also sorry i'm doing this online and don't know how to get paragraphs)