Diamantes, there is one thing that really stood out from your chapter. That is all the schemes available to state school students.
Oxford seems to have a hard time recruiting black students. You might have given us a clue when you said during the interviews you were worried that you would be the only black person at the college. Luckily you were not deterred from applying. Oxford is keen to welcome black students.
You mentioned a scheme called Target Oxbridge. This is specifically to help black students
https://targetoxbridge.co.uk/It is free to apply, and Oxbridge spend £1,250 per student to help them with their application. You will get a mentor who is a current black student at Oxford or Cambridge and guidance on applying. Although many students on this scheme are successful with their applications, you can still get in without it. I would suggest you apply anyway (and by this, I mean to Target Oxbridge and Oxford)
If you wonder what Oxford is like for black students, may I introduce you to two heroes of mine, Vee Kativhu (or Miss Varz) and Josh Tulloch, both graduates of Lady Margaret Hall. Miss Varz is a passionate believer that black students should not be put off applying to Oxford. Please see her beautiful youtube video below:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7825sbb907INow let's watch Vee and Josh having fun at their college. There's also a beautiful clip of the ACS (African and Caribbean Society) at a formal dinner in Magdalen college.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfll3Sh8GBAThey demonstrate how easy it was for them to fit in with other students, from all kinds of different backgrounds.
I love the line where Vee sits at the piano and says "You'll love it, I promise!"
There is a whole series of wonderful youtube videos by Miss Varz, but I want to end with my favourite, "Josh and Vee's make up challenge".
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7t5cccc1jjs