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My best mate kissed me and I crossed him off my friends list - what should one do?
Hey, the other thread about making out with fellow men got me thinking. I had a best mate who kissed me (a proper serious kiss) a couple of months ago. Now, he was dropping hints for a long time but i never knew he was serious about this type of relationship.
Now, I a straight 18 year old guy and date women like he does. Yet I didn't expect for him to have such feelings for me. It was awkward and repulsive, I felt sick and I punched him and he didn't fight back. I then ignored him to this day even though he texted me a lot after the incident. You have to realise that it was repulsive and baffling. He is an attractive guy to women yet he does this? I felt like trust had been broken and all this time (2 years) he had just been wanting to get it on with me.
But, I miss him. I miss our friendship. I want things to continue as they once did before. Us two going to bars and having a laugh with the girls. Maybe I was harsh on him but I was brought up in a family which isn't very open to gay people and It would be really awkward with him coming into the house as an openly gay person. My mind is messed up, I want to apologise but I don't know how and I don't know if he will break the trust again. What a fanny! LOL.
Now, I a straight 18 year old guy and date women like he does. Yet I didn't expect for him to have such feelings for me. It was awkward and repulsive, I felt sick and I punched him and he didn't fight back. I then ignored him to this day even though he texted me a lot after the incident. You have to realise that it was repulsive and baffling. He is an attractive guy to women yet he does this? I felt like trust had been broken and all this time (2 years) he had just been wanting to get it on with me.
But, I miss him. I miss our friendship. I want things to continue as they once did before. Us two going to bars and having a laugh with the girls. Maybe I was harsh on him but I was brought up in a family which isn't very open to gay people and It would be really awkward with him coming into the house as an openly gay person. My mind is messed up, I want to apologise but I don't know how and I don't know if he will break the trust again. What a fanny! LOL.
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Reply 1
Well, try to contact him if you can? And ask him why he did it :/.
Reply 2
I don't really want to know - I don't want an emotional wreck as a best friend!
Reply 3
Irtiza
And ask him why he did it :/.
Errr, bit obveous, no?
Dont bother bringing it up, just start talking to him and see if you still want to be friends.
Reply 4
And that would mean me having to reject him - again.
Reply 5
Sounds like he deserves a better friend than you tbh.
Reply 6
Are you female?
Reply 7
Or no youre male
Reply 8
No, I'm a guy.
Reply 9
17
To take your awkwardness with homosexuality out of it, how you would act if he was a female friend (that you had no feelings for other than friendship)?
Reply 10
17
punktopia
Sounds like he deserves a better friend than you tbh.
yep...
Reply 11
I think you were a bit of a bastard to punch him, come on hes gay so what. Like someone said he deserves a better friend than you however really if you are not accepting his 'gay' feelings, your not much of a friend are you.
If you really want to be his friend, just tell him subtly that you do not want a gay relationship but you are more than happy to be how it was like before.
If you really want to be his friend, just tell him subtly that you do not want a gay relationship but you are more than happy to be how it was like before.
Reply 12
13
I doubt things are going to go back to how they were...
Although I do think you owe each other an apology.
Although I do think you owe each other an apology.
Reply 13
16
What he did was out of line, a reaction like that can occur. I disagree with the people who say you wern't a good friend - he was bang out of order, and these reactions can occur.
But, just start talking to him and see how it goes.
But, just start talking to him and see how it goes.
Reply 14
A guy, my best friend, was trying to have sex with me! How can I be the bad guy?
Reply 15
16
Anonymous.
I think you were a bit of a bastard to punch him, come on hes gay so what. Like someone said he deserves a better friend than you however really if you are not accepting his 'gay' feelings, your not much of a friend are you.
If you really want to be his friend, just tell him subtly that you do not want a gay relationship but you are more than happy to be how it was like before.
If you really want to be his friend, just tell him subtly that you do not want a gay relationship but you are more than happy to be how it was like before.
... what? So because he's not gay he's not a good friend. Right.
Reply 16
Crazster
... what? So because he's not gay he's not a good friend. Right.
No you idiot, if he doesn't accept that he is gay than he really isn't a friend.Jesus.
Reply 17
13
How about stop being so pretentious.
Reply 18
Well I'm scared he'll turn me gay too. But I do accept him as a friend still, well, if I tried.
Reply 19
17
Anonymous.
No you idiot, if he doesn't accept that he is gay than he really isn't a friend.Jesus.
No need to be rude
I think you should just talk to him, it would be stupid to just ignore the fact he kissed you...
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