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Should I give him a second chance?

I broke up with my bf about a week ago because I had found out he was cheating on me. He didn’t physically cheat but he was telling another girl he loved her and they sent each other nudes. They didn’t talk a lot and it was very on and off but she was someone from his past who he’d told me not to worry about lol. Anyway, I blocked him on everything after that and he’s been making many new insta accounts everyday to contact me. I deleted my account so he’s been finding other ways. He seems like he’s genuinely sorry and he seems convinced that he can change and that he has already kinda changed. I loved him a lot and I’ve never had feelings for someone the way I did for him. However, I don’t know if I should give him another chance or not??

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Reply 1
Original post by Anonymous
I broke up with my bf about a week ago because I had found out he was cheating on me. He didn’t physically cheat but he was telling another girl he loved her and they sent each other nudes. They didn’t talk a lot and it was very on and off but she was someone from his past who he’d told me not to worry about lol. Anyway, I blocked him on everything after that and he’s been making many new insta accounts everyday to contact me. I deleted my account so he’s been finding other ways. He seems like he’s genuinely sorry and he seems convinced that he can change and that he has already kinda changed. I loved him a lot and I’ve never had feelings for someone the way I did for him. However, I don’t know if I should give him another chance or not??

that's not cheating.
No you shouldn't. To me, one time cheating - physically - isn't as bad as emotionally "cheating".
Reply 3
Original post by Ciel.
that's not cheating.


Well to me it is.
Original post by Ciel.
that's not cheating.

It very clearly is cheating.
Original post by Ciel.
that's not cheating.

He's hardly being faithful to her.
Don't give him a second chance. It is very rare for someone who cheats to change their ways. You deserve much better.
That fully is cheating, and no don’t give him a second chance, not yet at least. You’ll learn to love someone else the same if not more, he’s not the only person on this planet made for you, he was just the most local one
Reply 8
Original post by Anonymous
He's hardly being faithful to her.

it's just nudes. hardly different from watching porn.
Original post by Ciel.
it's just nudes. hardly different from watching porn.

'Just' nudes? He also told this other girl he loved her. It's not okay. Maybe that's something you'd put up with, but it's hurtful and classed as cheating to most.
Reply 10
Original post by Anonymous
'Just' nudes? He also told this other girl he loved her. It's not okay. Maybe that's something you'd put up with, but it's hurtful and classed as cheating to most.

prob lied to get her nudes.
Original post by Anonymous
I broke up with my bf about a week ago because I had found out he was cheating on me. He didn’t physically cheat but he was telling another girl he loved her and they sent each other nudes. They didn’t talk a lot and it was very on and off but she was someone from his past who he’d told me not to worry about lol. Anyway, I blocked him on everything after that and he’s been making many new insta accounts everyday to contact me. I deleted my account so he’s been finding other ways. He seems like he’s genuinely sorry and he seems convinced that he can change and that he has already kinda changed. I loved him a lot and I’ve never had feelings for someone the way I did for him. However, I don’t know if I should give him another chance or not??


Cheating is still cheating, he doesn't deserve you sis!
Original post by Anonymous
Well to me it is.


Ignore ciel, she's not stable.

Anyways, do you honestly see yourself with someone that went behind your back, sent nudes to another person and told her that he loved them?
Reply 13
Original post by Anonymous
Ignore ciel, she's not stable.

Anyways, do you honestly see yourself with someone that went behind your back, sent nudes to another person and told her that he loved them?

why don't you post under your real username if you're gonna insult me? what a coward. and i'm not a woman.
Original post by Ciel.
why don't you post under your real username if you're gonna insult me? what a coward. and i'm not a woman.

I thought about it, and then I realised I don't have the energy today after losing 4 ranked league matches in a row.
Original post by Anonymous
I broke up with my bf about a week ago because I had found out he was cheating on me. He didn’t physically cheat but he was telling another girl he loved her and they sent each other nudes. They didn’t talk a lot and it was very on and off but she was someone from his past who he’d told me not to worry about lol. Anyway, I blocked him on everything after that and he’s been making many new insta accounts everyday to contact me. I deleted my account so he’s been finding other ways. He seems like he’s genuinely sorry and he seems convinced that he can change and that he has already kinda changed. I loved him a lot and I’ve never had feelings for someone the way I did for him. However, I don’t know if I should give him another chance or not??


NO! Cheating isn't acceptable. If you give him another chance, it's like saying cheating is okay and gives him another opportunity to do it again.
Reply 16
Original post by Rock Fan
One that's cheating and two you are in no position to judge with your track record you thick twat

ooh, my posts sure bring out strong emotions in you. relax, babe. "track record", lol. you make me sound like a psychopath. it's just sex.
Original post by Ciel.
ooh, my posts sure bring out strong emotions in you. relax, babe. "track record", lol. you make sounds like a psychopath. it's just sex.

Do us all a favour, for the good of TSR **** off away from here
Original post by Ciel.
that's not cheating.

R u ok?? Yes that is cheating-_-
Reply 19
Original post by Rock Fan
Do us all a favour, for the good of TSR **** off away from here

no, thank you. i'm a tsr cat-prince, you should treat me with more respect. darling.

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