So my boyfriend lives in Canada and I live elsewhere so we’re in a long distance relationship and we were sexting. Then we were genuinely talking about how if we were together, he said we would play a romantic movie
And then he would get hard
I asked him “because of the movie?”
He said “well, yeah if there’s any intimate seen”
We talked about it for a bit and then he said something about if there’s sometime any intimate movie scene where there’s only a girl (not any couple, even there’s just the girl), and if he does get hard, I shouldn’t get offended. (He told me this all after I was asking him because we were already in the topic so I was curious)
Why would he get hard at another girl?? If she’s a bit naked and the movie scene is intimate, why’s he thinking any naughty stuff about her? Guys only get hard when they think of naughty stuff right? Or whatever the word is.
I feel extremely insecure and hurt. I want to cry and leave him but I know it’s not a good enough reason to leave him but it’s not okay according to me. He says the **** can’t be controlled and that even tho the scene may be of a girl, he won’t be getting hard CZ of the girl but Cz of the scene.
But the scene only has the girl so he’s just calling the girl the scene. This is too idk what. I don’t feel okay with this. I don’t find it acceptable for me. As in my feelings can’t accept that. He tells me he only finds me attractive and all, then why would he get hard at another girl coming up on a movie? Not okay for me I feel too insecure, help. If I leave he would just lie and say “okay it won’t happen I didn’t mean it”
And he would anyway convince me to stay and I love him so I can’t leave him but I can’t accept this, just not with him 😭
Everyone’s okay with different things, I don’t find my self okay with this...