Girls..

What are the major turn offs for you when your meeting guys (potential boyfriends). Please can you list them, both material/physical and character wise.

And what are the major turn ons..

I consider myself fairly good looking and fairly confident however it just seems such a struggle atm to get a girlfriend.. I want to figure out what I'm doing wrong which makes most girls so un-interested in me.

Replys are much appreciated, thankyou

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Reply 1

wellerism

Turn offs - Men with long arms

Turn ons - Men with long legs

Reply 2

Lozzaa

The trick is not to care.

Reply 3

chooklet

Lozzaa

The trick is not to care.

Definitely! Play the hard to get card a bit. Makes it much more fun than having some guy following you around.

Reply 4

glassheart

You want a girlfriend, and are therefore what we mean spirited girls might label a tad desperate. Lose this and the girls will, if you are as you say handsome and have more charisma then a toad, come a-running.

Reply 5

ßlαcksωαn

Do we need to see 10 of these exact threads a week?

Reply 6

Emmska

Smells blokes are a turn off, as are obese, ugly, stupid ones imo.

Reply 7

bete noire

Original post by ßl&#945

Do we need to see 10 of these exact threads a week?

Yup!

Reply 8

thanette

Turn ons:

-kindness
-laidback
-interesting and determined
-trustworthy

Turn-offs:

-arrogance/vanity
-rudeness
-pride
-liars
-unmotivated

Reply 9

glassheart

Oh and OP, guess what, we aren't all the same, shock freaking horror, would you believe

WE ALL LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS.

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Reply 10

flash123

Turn on
- GOOD HUMOUR!
-Tall
-Fairly Athletic/Skinny
- Curly Hair

Reply 11

Dollaleigh

i hate being able to see chest hair, especially if its poking out over the top of a jumper YUCK!!
also turn offs include: bad breath, greasy hair, being really lanky
i like a guy to be confident and not be too scared to approach me. good sense of humour with no cheesy chat up lines. most guys i know who have been interested in me tell me that they were too scared to approach me. i find myself very approachable, as do guys that dont fancy me. most guys ive been out with tell me they thought id be "out of their league" so i wdnt b too scared that a girl will be "out of ur league". yea u may get rejected a few times but u never no if u can get the gal u really like unless u try

Reply 12

RightSaidJames

glassheart

Oh and OP, guess what, we aren't all the same, shock freaking horror, would you believe

WE ALL LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS.

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What she said.

Reply 13

kitty_koo

use the search button :rolleyes:

Reply 14

lotusx

turn off: desperation.

act like you don't care. much more attractive.

Reply 15

wellerism

does no one agree about the arms and legs?

Reply 16

Jaydiee

Yeah desperation is a major turn off
play it cool :smile:

and act more as a friend than a potential boyfriend because otherwise you might seem intimidating

Reply 17

Ilora-Danon

Guys that tell you barefaced lies just to get to buy you a drink; note to the males species - just because you say you're married, doesn't mean I'm going to accept a drink off you!!!

I'm turned off guys who are; unattractive, boring, full of cliches, loud, so drunk they don't know what day it is, on drugs or are chavvy in any remote sense of the word (ie music taste).

Reply 18

*Lou*

Turn ons;
laidback
intelligent
funny
kind
interesting
open/positive
talk-active
smile
doesn't care what other people think and do whatever he wants/enjoys doing
(not including anything illegal :biggrin:

)
...

Turn offs;
arrogant
breaking the ice with: "omg you are so hot/sexy"
smelly
bad teeth
rude
looks like he didn't shower for past 3 weeks
showing off
second thing telling me - how much he earned in the past week
...

Reply 19

glassheart

wellerism

does no one agree about the arms and legs?