Want a challenge?

Well, **** anon. but as most have my mates have given up totally on advice as it either doesnt apply to me or.. I just dont listen I figure I should give TSR a challenge.

First of all, im 18, male and wouldnt call myself ugly. I can get girlfriends easily and if I want to pull round clubs I have the confidence to do so.

Thats the easy part.

Now, When I get into a relationship (ANY relationship thats more than mates) I seem to love the first week.. as in yey. but then after a week it seems that I just cant stand being around them, If they ring me to see what im doing I just dont pick up. I dont know why, many people say its either my age or im a commitaphobe but its actually weird. When im WITH the girl its amazing, but the effort before hand like.. say her ringing me to organise a date or something I just hate.. and untill im out I really dont want to go.

Its like, my ex who I split up with yesterday (not all on these reasons, she was mega jealous and actually turning bunny boiler on me) was amazing to be with.. but as soon as she tried to get me to meet her more than once a week I just seem to get sick of her.

Thats part one (I told you its a challenge :woo:

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Now im single, I spent most of last night talking to a girl I met in Birmingham when I was down there with some friends last week and shes actually amazing, But I think we could be really good mates (going to the same uni, very similar courses) so I know if I go down there and we end up getting together and then I get her "Millo'd" as my mates put it... she will hate me.. and thats not good as I have to probably spend the next three years seeing her.

Should I try it, or just not bother.

Meep Milloooo :woo:

Reply 1

BlackHawk

17

Don't bother. You're obviously not ready for a relationship so why push it? Just enjoy yourself at University.

Reply 2

Millo

OP

Meh, maybe. But the whole sleeping around every Friday at uni could get a bit weird...

Reply 3

tis_me_lord

14

Millo

Meh, maybe. But the whole sleeping around every Friday at uni could get a bit weird...

Why every Friday? Nothing happens on Fridays at uni ... :s-smilie:

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

i do this. i will fancy the pants off a girl for ages, then as soon as she makes it clear that she feels the same way about me i just lose interest. its like i just do it for the enjoyment of the chase or something without realising, just to prove to myself i can get her. its **** i know.

Reply 5

Millo

OP

Anonymous

i do this. i will fancy the pants off a girl for ages, then as soon as she makes it clear that she feels the same way about me i just lose interest. its like i just do it for the enjoyment of the chase or something without realising, just to prove to myself i can get her. its **** i know.

Exactly.. Its like my mates go crazy at me because im pretty confident and can get girls they couldnt, and then after a week I get bored.

Thrill of the chase is deffo what its about, I just dont know how to be happy once I get someone lol

tis_me_lord

Why every Friday? Nothing happens on Fridays at uni ... :s-smilie:

Friday is the night im out clubbing these days, who knows at uni :smile:

Reply 6

tis_me_lord

14

Millo

Friday is the night im out clubbing these days, who knows at uni :smile:

In my experience of uni students go out on weekdays and not on the weekend. I don't know if that will necessarily be the case for you too ...

btw I can't really give useful advise because I'm the total opposite to you regarding the subject of this thread ... so sorry 'bout that!

Reply 7

Millo

OP

lucky for some :tongue:

Reply 8

34253

2

I couldn't be bothered with a relationship before uni at all, then it just sort of clicked with my current girlfriend. Until then i'd agree with everyone else, just have fun and get a few notches and all.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

last time i made a thread about this i got like 100 people writing abuse at me for like 3 days lol

Reply 10

Helenia

20

Millo

Meh, maybe. But the whole sleeping around every Friday at uni could get a bit weird...

Enjoying being single doesn't have to = sleeping around with randomers all the time.

You're only 18, and uni is going to be a whole different world from home. Don't go in with expectations of finding the perfect relationship, or of being able to take home a different girl whenever you want one, and find your own happy medium in between, as long as nobody gets hurt.

Reply 11

Millo

OP

Anonymous

last time i made a thread about this i got like 100 people writing abuse at me for like 3 days lol

What did you do to make them do that lol?

Helenia

Enjoying being single doesn't have to = sleeping around with randomers all the time.

You're only 18, and uni is going to be a whole different world from home. Don't go in with expectations of finding the perfect relationship, or of being able to take home a different girl whenever you want one, and find your own happy medium in between, as long as nobody gets hurt.

A very good point, I enjoy the being with people... just the whole having to be a good bf is kinda where I fail.

I guess ill have fun till uni, and see what happens there

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

well, nothing apart from say exactly what i said in my 1st post on here. and got like 50 replies telling me to stop being a **** and to grow up you immature loser etc etc. really unappreciated that lol. nobody helped or said anything constructive at all so guess what; im still going around upsetting and chucking girls around and feeling unfulfilled myself.

cheers guys

Reply 13