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FTheOpps nm12345 shxttah_x noturhabibti Ax Sleepy Chowderzzz
🌼Okay ummmm this is gonna b a big shock and stuff but hope you guys accept it🌼
🌼I haven't told my school friends and my parents cus I'm not comfortable saying it yet but I needed to tell someone so I'm telling u guyssss hehe🌼

🌼Also, I'm doing this in blue, yellow and with daisy emojis as its now spring and my theme is blue and yellow with daisy flowers so yh🌼

I have said a lot about myself on tsr but have I been saying the truth? Coming up on the 🌼spill the tea sis interview🌼:

🌼 Is Zara 14?!
🌼 Is Zara actually a girl or having she been lying?
🌼 Has Zara been hiding something?
🌼 Pronouns??????
🌼 Name change?!

🌼 Is Zara 14?!
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No.....I'm not actually 14
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I'm actually a 16 year old from Sheffield I say I'm a Virgo but I'm actually a Capricorn - I'm born 12 of January :yep:
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I'm being honest!
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u still here? its not a lie i am!
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the fact u actually believed that! Nahhhhh I'm 14 and I'm not from Sheffield
And I'm not a Capricorn I'm a flippin' Virgo born 5th September






🌼 Is Zara actually a girl or having she been lying?
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I'm sorry guys I've been lying. U may be thinking Zara no ur not lying cus u've posted a pic of urself on tsr before - that was a pic of my sister and she said I could post the pic.
I'm actually a boy and my real name is Zaid. I went with Zara cus I have always wanted to be a girl so I pretended I was a girl on here.
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pahahaha i'm just messing with u guys!
I'm actually a girl I promise u I'm a girl and that pic I posted on tsr before is of me and not my cousin - all my cousins are older than me and only one of them is younger and shes a baby and I don't have any siblings soo it couldn't have been a pic of them soooooo yh.
And yes I'm a girl I'm not a boy although I wish I was a boy


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Ummmm well my pronouns are she/her and I was thinking of ummmmm how do I put this?
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keeping them that way - I do wish I was a boy sometimes but imma keep my pronouns as she/her



🌼 Has Zara been hiding something?
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Yes, there is. I don't feel comfortable being called Zara and being a girl sometimes. No, Im not trans or gender fluid im a girl and identify as a girl but want to be more of a masculine tomboy girl.
Mum wanted to raise a princess who loves pink but I hate that kind of stuff nowadays and want to be casual and dress in men's clothes and be who I am.
I want to wear men's clothes and I was scared to tell people and I haven't even told my best friend but u guys are so comforting and so I thought I would spill cus I can't keep it inside me anymore.
I want to wear men's joggers and baggy shirts and beanies. Ofc I still want to wear dresses and skirts and stuff but more tomboy.

Sorry I'm telling u guys this I'm just not comfortable telling my mum and anyone else and i need to tell someone so im telling u guys.

Another thing, I'm bipolar. Most of u guys don't know this but I am. Im hyper and crazy and sad nearly everyday its like a rollercoaster. I wanted to tell u this so if I ever lash out at a random time or act crazy and insane u don't come at me and just know its cus im in my hypomania bipolar mood.

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🌼 Name change?!
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This is gonna be a bit of a story. I have decided to change my name.

So basically I have always loved my actual name (Zara) and in Hebrew, it means princess and my mum knew the meaning of my name as when I started becoming older she told me she named me Zara cus it means princess and she wanted to bring up a little princess. But nowadays I don't want to be that "princess" she wants to bring up. I don't like girls clothes that much okay yes I like the dresses and boots and stuff but I want to wear men's clothes and stuff and in Islam, we have to be straight and most Muslims say we also have to wear clothes that go with ur gender so girl or boy clothes.
But I don't want that.
I want to wear men's clothes and be like a tomboy, Now where does the name change come into play? Well, since I want to be more of a tomboy I thought I would sort of change my name. Not legally, but just change it. The two names I had in mind were Noah and Hayden. One of my friends on here is called Hayden so I decided to go with Noah. And yh now I'm just gonna go with Noah and tell my friends at school to call me Noah and the people of tsr to call moi Noah hehe.
I'm only gonna let fam call me Zara cus they ain't gonna listen to me asking them to call me Noah and then possibly my boyfriend will be allowed to call me Zara - if I ever do get a boyfriend
Oh yh and if u don't want to call me Noah u can call me Ace! Since my name is AestheticStudying and idk if there would be a good nickname for it I came up with Ace.

So I would really appreciate it if you called me either Noah or Ace, please.
It might be a lot to take in changing to not calling me Zara anymore and stuff but please I hope you can respect my decision.
Thank u! 🌼x

And yh that's what I wanted to say. I hope you can accept this guys and not get mad at me for this
Thanks 🌼x
aww honestly the whole dressing thing is perfectly fine, a lot of my outfits are baggy joggers and oversized tees, i add the feminine touch to it through jewellery and my hair ((:
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aww honestly the whole dressing thing is perfectly fine, a lot of my outfits are baggy joggers and oversized tees, i add the feminine touch to it through jewellery and my hair ((:
ooooh I do love jewellery so I could add that to my looks
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(Original post by AestheticStudying)
🌼READ THIS IF UR NAME IS TAGGED BECAUSE IT'S IMPORTANT!!!🌼
FTheOpps nm12345 shxttah_x noturhabibti Ax Sleepy Chowderzzz
🌼Okay ummmm this is gonna b a big shock and stuff but hope you guys accept it🌼
🌼I haven't told my school friends and my parents cus I'm not comfortable saying it yet but I needed to tell someone so I'm telling u guyssss hehe🌼

🌼Also, I'm doing this in blue, yellow and with daisy emojis as its now spring and my theme is blue and yellow with daisy flowers so yh🌼

I have said a lot about myself on tsr but have I been saying the truth? Coming up on the 🌼spill the tea sis interview🌼:

🌼 Is Zara 14?!
🌼 Is Zara actually a girl or having she been lying?
🌼 Has Zara been hiding something?
🌼 Pronouns??????
🌼 Name change?!

🌼 Is Zara 14?!
Spoiler:
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No.....I'm not actually 14
Spoiler:
Show
I'm actually a 16 year old from Sheffield I say I'm a Virgo but I'm actually a Capricorn - I'm born 12 of January :yep:
Spoiler:
Show
Its true I am!
Spoiler:
Show
I'm being honest!
Spoiler:
Show
u still here? its not a lie i am!
Spoiler:
Show
the fact u actually believed that! Nahhhhh I'm 14 and I'm not from Sheffield
And I'm not a Capricorn I'm a flippin' Virgo born 5th September






🌼 Is Zara actually a girl or having she been lying?
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I'm sorry guys I've been lying. U may be thinking Zara no ur not lying cus u've posted a pic of urself on tsr before - that was a pic of my sister and she said I could post the pic.
I'm actually a boy and my real name is Zaid. I went with Zara cus I have always wanted to be a girl so I pretended I was a girl on here.
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pahahaha i'm just messing with u guys!
I'm actually a girl I promise u I'm a girl and that pic I posted on tsr before is of me and not my cousin - all my cousins are older than me and only one of them is younger and shes a baby and I don't have any siblings soo it couldn't have been a pic of them soooooo yh.
And yes I'm a girl I'm not a boy although I wish I was a boy


🌼 Pronouns??????
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Ummmm well my pronouns are she/her and I was thinking of ummmmm how do I put this?
Spoiler:
Show

keeping them that way - I do wish I was a boy sometimes but imma keep my pronouns as she/her



🌼 Has Zara been hiding something?
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Yes, there is. I don't feel comfortable being called Zara and being a girl sometimes. No, Im not trans or gender fluid im a girl and identify as a girl but want to be more of a masculine tomboy girl.
Mum wanted to raise a princess who loves pink but I hate that kind of stuff nowadays and want to be casual and dress in men's clothes and be who I am.
I want to wear men's clothes and I was scared to tell people and I haven't even told my best friend but u guys are so comforting and so I thought I would spill cus I can't keep it inside me anymore.
I want to wear men's joggers and baggy shirts and beanies. Ofc I still want to wear dresses and skirts and stuff but more tomboy.

Sorry I'm telling u guys this I'm just not comfortable telling my mum and anyone else and i need to tell someone so im telling u guys.

Another thing, I'm bipolar. Most of u guys don't know this but I am. Im hyper and crazy and sad nearly everyday its like a rollercoaster. I wanted to tell u this so if I ever lash out at a random time or act crazy and insane u don't come at me and just know its cus im in my hypomania bipolar mood.

And finally:
🌼 Name change?!
Spoiler:
Show
This is gonna be a bit of a story. I have decided to change my name.

So basically I have always loved my actual name (Zara) and in Hebrew, it means princess and my mum knew the meaning of my name as when I started becoming older she told me she named me Zara cus it means princess and she wanted to bring up a little princess. But nowadays I don't want to be that "princess" she wants to bring up. I don't like girls clothes that much okay yes I like the dresses and boots and stuff but I want to wear men's clothes and stuff and in Islam, we have to be straight and most Muslims say we also have to wear clothes that go with ur gender so girl or boy clothes.
But I don't want that.
I want to wear men's clothes and be like a tomboy, Now where does the name change come into play? Well, since I want to be more of a tomboy I thought I would sort of change my name. Not legally, but just change it. The two names I had in mind were Noah and Hayden. One of my friends on here is called Hayden so I decided to go with Noah. And yh now I'm just gonna go with Noah and tell my friends at school to call me Noah and the people of tsr to call moi Noah hehe.
I'm only gonna let fam call me Zara cus they ain't gonna listen to me asking them to call me Noah and then possibly my boyfriend will be allowed to call me Zara - if I ever do get a boyfriend
Oh yh and if u don't want to call me Noah u can call me Ace! Since my name is AestheticStudying and idk if there would be a good nickname for it I came up with Ace.

So I would really appreciate it if you called me either Noah or Ace, please.
It might be a lot to take in changing to not calling me Zara anymore and stuff but please I hope you can respect my decision.
Thank u! 🌼x

And yh that's what I wanted to say. I hope you can accept this guys and not get mad at me for this
Thanks 🌼x
ur making me go mental... why all of the changes at the start kuriye
and chill lol no ones gonna be mad at u.... im glad u spoke up about it... its always good to talk it out rather then keep it inside of u then u can get good advice on it as well
(Original post by FTheOpps)
Nothing wrong with liking male associated things, doesn't make you a man in any way. Truesay masculine things are more fun :lol: We have martial arts instead of gandu fairy princesses. In Islam it is a major sin to act like the opposite gender but what you're describing is nothing like that. Male clothes are modest, whereas female clothes these days tend not to be and that speaks volumes about your character it shows that you have an innate sense of modesty.

I don't agree with anything LGBT right but Islam doesn't say you have to be straight. If you were born a certain way then that's your fitna and as long as you don't act on those urges - whatever they may be - you will be rewarded inshallah.

The one thing that's concerning is the name change. Like you said it's a sin to act like the opposite gender, and choosing male names falls outside of what I just talked about. It's your choice at the end of the day and I accept it, but I'm not going to put sin on myself by advocating it you get it so ima stick to bachi :lol: No one here was going to say it so I had to be the one, but everything else is fine and normal I got cousins who like masculine things and that's just made us closer.

In today's society everyone feels like they have to fit in a box or be something. That's natural because we as humans need purpose, but when people start labelling themselves things that don't make sense we come out of what is natural. From what I can see you're not doing that at all but just be careful ahlie.

Also, people these days like to say if you're not comfortable with something then that's fine and reh teh teh but if you're having to hide yourself from your own mother, Islamically, there is an issue and you should tell her. Not the name change ting tho discuss that with a counsellor or something
Basically what he said... but if u feel uncomfortable being called a girls name... choose a name that is unisex, for example the name noor is used for boys and girls in islam...
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Basically what he said... but if u feel uncomfortable being called a girls name... choose a name that is unisex, for example the name noor is used for boys and girls in islam...
Umm I know ur tryna make a point here but...
Noor is a boys name, the girl version is noorah
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Umm I know ur tryna make a point here but...
Noor is a boys name, the girl version is noorah
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why do ik girls called noor:confused:
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ooooh I do love jewellery so I could add that to my looks
yesss definitelyy
do what makes u happy, but also stay following Islamic guidance as ftheopps and shxttah said
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why do ik girls called noor:confused:
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Umm I know ur tryna make a point here but...
Noor is a boys name, the girl version is noorah
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umm ik ur tryna be clever but...
girls can also be called noor becuase I know a girl who is called noor... some girls are called noorah but thats just a different alternative of saying noor which is actually from the quran
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Yesss only have a degree in geog haha yes afghan is SA I’m Pakistani YaPakisTaniYa🇵🇰
And I am Tani! 😂😂😂
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umm ik ur tryna be clever but...
girls can also be called noor becuase I know a girl who is called noor... some girls are called noorah but thats just a different alternative of saying noor which is actually from the quran
Ahh well they prolly made a mistake because noorah is also in the Quran in many places,
Noorah is the feminine version of the word noor, all u have to do is look at other Arabic words to back myself up here, the word apple in Arabic is tufahah It is feminine cuz of the "ah" the the end which I think is called a 'tah marboota" if it were a masculine word it would be called a tufaah without the ah at the end,
Also just because it is in the Quran doesn't mean u have to call someone it , the word Kursi is in the Quran and I don't see anyone called kursi.

It's not a matter of tryna be clever btw
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ur making me go mental... why all of the changes at the start kuriye
and chill lol no ones gonna be mad at u.... im glad u spoke up about it... its always good to talk it out rather then keep it inside of u then u can get good advice on it as well

Basically what he said... but if u feel uncomfortable being called a girls name... choose a name that is unisex, for example the name noor is used for boys and girls in islam...
oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooof
auntie going mental :hahaha:

U do know Noah is a unisex name.........just sayingggggg
(Original post by noturhabibti)
yesss definitelyy
do what makes u happy, but also stay following Islamic guidance as ftheopps and shxttah said
yep will do :yep:
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Ahh well they prolly made a mistake because noorah is also in the Quran in many places,
Noorah is the feminine version of the word noor, all u have to do is look at other Arabic words to back myself up here, the word apple in Arabic is tufahah It is feminine cuz of the "ah" the the end which I think is called a 'tah marboota" if it were a masculine word it would be called a tufaah without the ah at the end,
Also just because it is in the Quran doesn't mean u have to call someone it , the word Kursi is in the Quran and I don't see anyone called kursi.

It's not a matter of tryna be clever btw
erm im sure that نورة is not mentioned in the quran becuase the only ladies name that is mentioned in the quran is maryam
noor can be used for girls as well just believe me... i dont wanna argue cos i dont wanna end up saying something that is wrong
and how has the word kursi got anything to do with this subject?
i was just joking bout the clever thing lol... chill dnt cry
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oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooof
auntie going mental :hahaha:

U do know Noah is a unisex name.........just sayingggggg
go with noah then... lol i didnt know ok
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erm im sure that نورة is not mentioned in the quran becuase the only ladies name that is mentioned in the quran is maryam
noor can be used for girls as well just believe me... i dont wanna argue cos i dont wanna end up saying something that is wrong
and how has the word kursi got anything to do with this subject?
i was just joking bout the clever thing lol... chill dnt cry
نورة is not mentioned in the Quran as a name but as an adjective 😏.
Juss debating.,.
Kursi... oh I was just saying cah u was saying noor is in the Quran.
Nah yeah I get u, after my own research juss now I found that there might be a very slight chance that I bin slightly incorrect- note I didn't say wrong🤣 😉 .
According to google effendi it is a unisex name--- now what was I saying all along eh eh.😇.


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نورة is not mentioned in the Quran as a name but as an adjective 😏.
Juss debating.,.
Kursi... oh I was just saying cah u was saying noor is in the Quran.
Nah yeah I get u, after my own research juss now I found that there might be a very slight chance that I bin slightly incorrect- note I didn't say wrong🤣 😉 .
According to google effendi it is a unisex name--- now what was I saying all along eh eh.😇.


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thats wat i sed tho that noor is a unisex name... ur the one who sed it wasnt
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thats wat i sed tho that noor is a unisex name... ur the one who sed it wasnt
Noo waaay😉😉
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I'm so confused what's happened here
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I'm so confused what's happened here
No idea......everyone just seems to be at each other's throats :lol:
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I'm so confused what's happened here
WDYM akh
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