Am I aromantic?

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Bisexual female // I've been in a few relationships but I always seem to run into the same problem no matter who I date. I'll get really infatuated with them and enjoy the chase, we start dating and as soon as they admit that they love me, I start to get bored. No matter how close we get, if I do love them I just love them as a friend, not a romantic partner and we usually go our separate ways after a while of me finally admitting this to them (it's hard though bc i dont want to hurt them, but im just not happy in a relationship with them anymore since i dont feel that interest). Ive becomes friends with an ex and it feels like we're repeating what we've already done, texting all the time and the chase is back on, I'm more interested. But as soon as she says she loves me or wants to get back together, I just lose interest. My first relationship was w a man I thought that maybe i was actually just a lesbian but the same thing happened when i dated women. I'm a very sexual person and love a hookup as much as the next guy but? I just don't feel the romantic aspect the way that other people feel it. What is this??
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do you use instragram if yes then MY LBGT account can help you peace
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Maybe you're frayromantic?
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do you use instragram if yes then MY LBGT account can help you peace
yes! what's the account? i'll follow!
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Maybe you're frayromantic?
i just looked it up and the definition: "Frayromantic (also known as ignotasromantic) is a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum. It is defined as when someone only experiences romantic attraction towards those that they are not deeply connected with, and lose that attraction as they get to know the person."

I'm literally in shock rn bc it just defined it to a T for me so thank you Bio 7 for telling me what I am jfc so glad I posted this
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(Original post by kosmik_kaktus)
i just looked it up and the definition: "Frayromantic (also known as ignotasromantic) is a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum. It is defined as when someone only experiences romantic attraction towards those that they are not deeply connected with, and lose that attraction as they get to know the person."

I'm literally in shock rn bc it just defined it to a T for me so thank you Bio 7 for telling me what I am jfc so glad I posted this
You're welcome. Have a look on aven if you haven't before, there are a load of us aces and grey aces there that can also help that cover all the romantic and sexual identites like that.
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