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Girlfriend says I shouldn’t go clubbing

My girlfriend says I shouldn’t go clubbing as I have her and also says my friend shouldn’t go as he has a girlfriend. But she still goes herself.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

When did you have this conversation? We're all in quarantine - no one's going clubbing anyway

Reply 2

charleeholland

if you want to go clubbing go clubbing (obviously when it’s allowed)

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

When did you have this conversation? We're all in quarantine - no one's going clubbing anyway

Obviously not now mate, use your head. It’s besides the point.

Reply 4

StriderHort

Well if she's saying you don't need clubs because you have her that's fair enough, get her making some jugs of cocktails and working on a trance/house set.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

If she's controlling your actions, then it turn it around and ask if you can control her actions. Stuff works 2 ways in a relationship. For some people, clubbing while in a relationship may be a no BUT both people have to agree and abide by that rule. If she isn't, then she's a hypocrite and you need to point that out to her or else she'll just continue trying to control you and you'll continue letting her. That's not fun or healthy.

Reply 6

d0nkey_dude

if she can why can’t you? double standard

Reply 7

asif007

Tell her to **** off.

Reply 8

ta97

if she is trying to control you in a relationship, you are not in a healthy relationship and should end it. Next thing you know, she'll try to stop u from seeing friends or even visiting your family/parents - you still gonna allow yourself to be controlled?

Have some self esteem man...

(edited 3 years ago)