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Hi guys I’ve been paranoid for about 6 months that I’m gay. I’m 16 and have always thought that I was straight. Until about 6 months ago when it just popped into my head. I have never found a man attractive I that sense until a few months ago where I was paranoid that I found every man attractive. Yesterday I had enough of my thoughts and finally decided to masturbate to gay porn and to my surprise I actually ejaculated does this mean that I am gay

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Hey, it's ultimately up to you! Sorry if that's not very decisive
You could be gay, but you might also be bisexual, or pansexual, or you might choose not to define your sexuality in that way. You don't really need to decide, if you don't want to.
You can think about this for as long as you want, and maybe talk to a LGBT+ friend or research bisexuality/pansexuality.
Feeling attracted to a person of the same sex suggests that you may well be part of the LGBT+ community, though. Welcome
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Hey, it's ultimately up to you! Sorry if that's not very decisive
You could be gay, but you might also be bisexual, or pansexual, or you might choose not to define your sexuality in that way. You don't really need to decide, if you don't want to.
You can think about this for as long as you want, and maybe talk to a LGBT+ friend or research bisexuality/pansexuality.
Feeling attracted to a person of the same sex suggests that you may well be part of the LGBT+ community, though. Welcome
Im not attracted to me though
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Im not attracted to me though
Not entirely sure what you mean?
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Not entirely sure what you mean?
I’m not attracted to men in any way gay porn makes me feel sick
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I’m not attracted to men in any way gay porn makes me feel sick
Sorry, I misunderstood what you were saying in your original message then.
In that case, you're obviously not gay?
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Sorry, I misunderstood what you were saying in your original message then.
In that case, you're obviously not gay?
Yeah I think so I must have been turned on by something in my head that I was thinking about I’ve watched a lot of gay porn as a test and never once got hard
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Yeah I think so I must have been turned on by something in my head that I was thinking about I’ve watched a lot of gay porn as a test and never once got hard
Mate your gay and there’s nothing wrong with that, just accept it, if you are 100% straight, there is no way you can *** to gay porn
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A lot of us aren’t 100% gay or straight. I’m mainly straight but I’ve had sexual relations with men. I think being bisexual is more common than generally thought.
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I would not say it's up to you at all you cant chose to be gay, I would say however to not think too much of it im 16 too and am gay however I know that hormones play a big factor in sexuality at this age, meaning I could well be bisexual however due to hormones I am not attracted to girls. if you need to chat I'm here if u wanna talk as I know how confusing it is as I was very confused for a very long time.
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Hi guys I’ve been paranoid for about 6 months that I’m gay. I’m 16 and have always thought that I was straight. Until about 6 months ago when it just popped into my head. I have never found a man attractive I that sense until a few months ago where I was paranoid that I found every man attractive. Yesterday I had enough of my thoughts and finally decided to masturbate to gay porn and to my surprise I actually ejaculated does this mean that I am gay

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Hey man, if I was you’d I’d do some research into HOCD, it’s a form of OCD relating to doubts about sexuality, ( it affects both gay and straight people). From reading your post it sounds like you may be a sufferer if this.

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Hi guys I’ve been paranoid for about 6 months that I’m gay. I’m 16 and have always thought that I was straight. Until about 6 months ago when it just popped into my head. I have never found a man attractive I that sense until a few months ago where I was paranoid that I found every man attractive. Yesterday I had enough of my thoughts and finally decided to masturbate to gay porn and to my surprise I actually ejaculated does this mean that I am gay

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Gays are not bad.
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Hi guys I’ve been paranoid for about 6 months that I’m gay. I’m 16 and have always thought that I was straight. Until about 6 months ago when it just popped into my head. I have never found a man attractive I that sense until a few months ago where I was paranoid that I found every man attractive. Yesterday I had enough of my thoughts and finally decided to masturbate to gay porn and to my surprise I actually ejaculated does this mean that I am gay

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I don't understand this post at all. You seem to have a problem with gay people - "gay porn makes me feel sick" - why? Gay isn't pejorative, it's not bad. just another state of being.

Not all gay men find every other man attractive just as not all straight men find every woman attractive. If you're really 16 then your hormones are all over the place. They'll settle down but, until then, try and be adult about it. The person that said "if you c*m to gay porn, you're gay" is talking b*llocks. You watched people in an intimate situation and the old neurons started firing randomly. It's not unusual to get aroused.

Also, sexuality is fluid, particularly in the early years. You can find yourself fancying women one month, then men the next, then back to women until your preferences settle down.
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