My brother keeps coming out with my friends and talking to my friends?

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I dont like it, it’s been happening for a bit of time now and I just want it to stop. I just enjoy going out with friends and just me. I keep having arguments with him about it. Obviously the passed few weeks we haven’t been going out but he messages them and goes on games with them so I want to speak to them but no he’s playing fifa with them or black ops. They are my friends from college and school so why can’t he talk to his friends from school or college. He doesn’t let me talk to his friends but when I am getting ready to go out he just gets ready as well and when I’m on the phone he comes interrupting me then takes over the conversation changing the subject. Sometimes I come out and he just is on games with them talking. It’s pretty much most days or the week they game and every time we went out when we could and he’s going to carry on when we are allowed out. I just hate it so much.
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Zoe Skinner
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maybe his friends aren't really his friends
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Zoe Skinner)
maybe his friends aren't really his friends
That isn’t my problem though
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At this point it seems like it is too late, your brother is friends with your friends now. Can't stop them from hanging out if they want to
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That isn’t my problem though
u gotta let him live tho
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(Original post by MWills99)
At this point it seems like it is too late, your brother is friends with your friends now. Can't stop them from hanging out if they want to
I just don’t like it though
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(Original post by Zoe Skinner)
u gotta let him live tho
He can just not talk to anyone
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I just don’t like it though
I get you, I wouldn't want someone imposing on my life like that but it is too late unfortunately
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He can just not talk to anyone
don't be mean hahaha
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don't be mean hahaha
I’m not, before I started meeting up with friends I didn’t talk to anyone
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I used to do this to my brother because it annoyed him. If he's talking to your friends just to annoy you then talk to him about it properly, and talk to them.

However, if he actually wants to be friends with them, and they want to be friends with him, there's nothing you can do about it. You don't own the rights to your friends!
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first world problems lol
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He can just not talk to anyone
U sound hella selfish
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(Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox)
I used to do this to my brother because it annoyed him. If he's talking to your friends just to annoy you then talk to him about it properly, and talk to them.

However, if he actually wants to be friends with them, and they want to be friends with him, there's nothing you can do about it. You don't own the rights to your friends!
He needs to go out with his own friends not mine
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He needs to go out with his own friends not mine
As I said, you don't own your friends. If he wants to make friends with them too, unfortunately, you have no say in the matter.
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U sound hella selfish
I’m not, it’s not my problem if he doesn’t have his own friends
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I’m not, it’s not my problem if he doesn’t have his own friends
He has friends now, he could use the same argument that it is not his problem that you have a problem with him befriending your friends
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(Original post by MWills99)
He has friends now, he could use the same argument that it is not his problem that you have a problem with him befriending your friends
But most people would have a problem with their brother coming everywhere though
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