I've joined some uni group chats recently: accommodation, course and a general business school group chat. I made the one for our course and there's not a lot of people in it yet but so far, everyone is nice. I like the business school one, i don't talk a lot in it but there's banter. When i joined my accommodation one, the first thing they asked me was where i got the invite link from - no hi, no welcome or anything. All they talk about is drinking and sex and as a person who's a virgin and has only drank a few times and never got drunk i feel really left out. They were just talking about having a shag chart in every flat. Honestly, I am not ready to have sex - i value emotional connection in a relationship and sex is something i would only do if I'm serious about them. The last thing I want is people keeping track of how many people I shagged. Should I switch my accommodation to somewhere else? Has anyone gained anything out of being in these group chats?