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My boyfriend is a Muslim and he is telling me he can't marry me because he wants to be a good Muslim. But he's saying we can have kids but not get married. What does this essentially mean?
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Why cant he marry you? And no you can't have kids and not get married according to Islam. You shouldn’t even be having sex, if you are that is.
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(Original post by Ojay91.x)
Why cant he marry you? And no you can't have kids and not get married according to Islam. You shouldn’t even be having sex, if you are that is.
Yes, we have sex. Is that wrong in Islam?
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Why cant he marry you? And no you can't have kids and not get married according to Islam. You shouldn’t even be having sex, if you are that is.
He's telling me that he wouldn't be a good Muslim if he married me.
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Yes, we have sex. Is that wrong in Islam?
If he is a Muslim he should not be having sex with you or anybody. To use Islam as a reason to NOT get married to be a ‘good Muslim’ is utterly ridiculous. Not only does it go against the religion as you should be married, but the fact he is having sex with you and suggesting you can have children but not be married is utterly disgraceful. Sis, get out of that relationship NOW. I say this as a Muslim woman. Please.
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He's telling me that he wouldn't be a good Muslim if he married me.
To be a good Muslim you MUST marry prior to having sex so he is already a pretty crap Muslim.
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If he is a Muslim he should not be having sex with you or anybody. To use Islam as a reason to NOT get married to be a ‘good Muslim’ is utterly ridiculous. Not only does it go against the religion as you should be married, but the fact he is having sex with you and suggesting you can have children but not be married is utterly disgraceful. Sis, get out of that relationship NOW. I say this as a Muslim woman. Please.
Okay is it okay if I pm you about more questions?
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Are you Muslim?
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Lmao I think he was dropped on his head as a child
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Anonymous #2
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Tbh this is a shambles I didn’t know all these Muslim guys were going out with non Muslims
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Okay is it okay if I pm you about more questions?
Of course you can
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in short it means your boyfriend is the ultimate wasteman and you need to get away from him asap
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In Islam you should only have sex and kids after you marry.
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Of course you can
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Tbh this is a shambles I didn’t know all these Muslim guys were going out with non Muslims
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He exclusively dates Black/mixed girls lmaoooo
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More like Kojo Fund & Raye - Check LMFAOOOOOO!!!
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Are you Muslim?
No I'm not.
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In Islam you should only have sex and kids after you marry.
Welp I guess he has bad intentions. He's saying it's against his religion to marry a non-Muslim.
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Welp I guess he has bad intentions. He's saying it's against his religion to marry a non-Muslim.
He is chatting out of his rear end love.
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Take pics of him then wait for him to get married then send it to his virgin wife. Cos he'll tell her he's a virgin too lmfao!
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