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Grievances about my marriage

Wow-Don't know where to begin. Ok, so I've been in a dead end/love-less marriage since 2004! We got married in December of '07 (meet & initially fell in love with each other in 2004). The issue-MAIN ISSUE-is that we are essentially JUST ROOMMATES!!
We never consummated this 'union'. I used to try so hard to interest him-(in the Newlywed phase & W-E-L-L beyond that period of time)by meeting him at the door when he'd get off work, fully made-up. Smelling pretty, candle-lit dinner I'd cooked ALL day, hell, I once even attempted oral sex on Him all-2 NO AVAIL!
I lost lots of weight (I'm not a large lady to begin with). I'm 5'10" & for him to get interested in me again (b4 marriage our sex life was barely once a week), I got all the way down to a fragile looking 125lb. woman...That didn't appease him either. I learned the hard way after catching him masturbating to porn & when I lived in his apartment w/ him when we 1st started dating, I stumbled upon a large quantity of XXX-rated vids. So, in a sense, my severe weight
What sort of porn was he watching ? Maybe you have been trying too hard. Keep yourself busy with friends. Don't always be available for him . Either you aren't meant to be together or it will wake him up

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