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Have sex with boyfriend or maintain relationship with mum?

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Reply 40

Kris17

Forget your dumbass mum, shes not the one thats gonna be giving you that good dique

Reply 41

Anonymous #1

Original post by wgecvbio

OP, are you religious?

Nope, my mum is just a conservative asian parent, if you get what I mean lol

Reply 42

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Nope, my mum is just a conservative asian parent, if you get what I mean lol

Is your mum a Muslim cos mine is the same

Reply 43

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Is your mum a Muslim cos mine is the same

No, she's Hong Kong Chinese :smile:

she was always brought up to be very conservative which is a wise move, in a way

Reply 44

Foxehh

I mean just wait one year until your on your own.
Also, what happened to the whole staying-inside-not-seeing-people-pandemic stuff?

Reply 45

username4952880

Original post by Anonymous

Do you think that 17 is too early of an age to have sex?

no is not. And do it if you want to. Don't follow her advice , is your life and you can make your own choices. Just don't get pregnant!

Reply 46

EibGC

You don't want to listen to your mum and then put yourself at risk of pregnancy if things with your boyfriend escalate. If you think this is something you are ready for, or could happen soon, I'd suggest getting contraception. You can explain the situation to your GP and have them only use your mobile number to contact you. You could also look at an injection or the coil - which wouldn't be as obvious as taking the pill everyday. In saying that, maybe another firmer conversation with your mum could help? Surely taking you to the doctors to responsibly go on to contraception is better than an emergency visit for a morning after pill. It sounds like she won't like it either way but then at least you know you've been honest and respectful by communicating with her.Good luck😊