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My bf cheated on me w/ his ex gf. I'm always nervous he might cheat on me again. Is this normal?
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And you're still with him? okay...
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(Original post by SweetSexySavage)
And you're still with him? okay...
Well we got back together...
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And you're still with him? okay...
This. Staying with a cheater is the epitome of stupid in my opinion.
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If you don't trust him, why are you with him?
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bro if he was serious he wouldnt have cheated
there shouldnt even be a next time
yeah love is a mysterious thing
if you wanna trust him then go ahead
but if he cheats again leave him
why do people even cheat??
i never understood that
if he didnt wanna be with you then he shouldve just left
but dont make yourself too vulnerable and easy
he will think that since you took him back that you always will
biggest mistake
but hey..you will get tired of his crap and when you do you will leave
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No, there is no point being paranoid.
But remember that this guy may have no interest in any monogamous relationship or may still have strong feelings for his ex.
If you can't accept this- end the relationship, cut all contact and move on.
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This. Staying with a cheater is the epitome of stupid in my opinion.
Couldn't agree less.

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Well we got back together...
What made you think it would be a good idea to get back?
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Your relationship is pretty much going to go downhill from here.

Would be best to save yourself some dignity and leave him.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Your relationship is pretty much going to go downhill from here.

Would be best to save yourself some dignity and leave him.
yup

once you lose trust its hard to get it back
especially with a cheater
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Very few relationships are the same after one partner cheats. Those who do survive, have usually spent decades together and understand the issues which led to it.

If you’re young I don’t think this relationship is worth continuing, especially if you’re still worried.

Plenty of other blokes out there.
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My bf cheated on me w/ his ex gf. I'm always nervous he might cheat on me again. Is this normal?
yes is normal.
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