Why do guys get jealous?

Watch
Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 7 months ago
#1
Just wanted your opinion on why guys get jealous/angry towards a girl when he sees her talk to another guy?
0
reply
username2908878
Badges: 20
Rep:
?
#2
Report 7 months ago
#2
Because they Insecure x
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#3
Report Thread starter 7 months ago
#3
(Original post by Supernova36)
Because they Insecure x
Insecure about what though? X
0
reply
ALYAMAANI2.0
Badges: 10
Rep:
?
#4
Report 7 months ago
#4
(Original post by Anonymous)
Just wanted your opinion on why guys get jealous/angry towards a girl when he sees her talk to another guy?
If their just talking with no obvious flirtation it would be fine. However if it’s the opposite then it’s only natural to feel jealous.

Jealousy can be a good thing as it shows you do care about your partner but I’d say that in most cases it probably isn’t. Most likely it results in someone trying to control the other by being verbally, physically or mentally abusive.
1
reply
Anonymous #1
#5
Report Thread starter 7 months ago
#5
(Original post by ALYAMAANI2.0)
If their just talking with no obvious flirtation it would be fine. However if it’s the opposite then it’s only natural to feel jealous.

Jealousy can be a good thing as it shows you do care about your partner but I’d say that in most cases it probably isn’t. Most likely it results in someone trying to control the other by being verbally, physically or mentally abusive.
He's not my partner we're just friends... so why would he care so much to be feeling angry?
0
reply
ALYAMAANI2.0
Badges: 10
Rep:
?
#6
Report 7 months ago
#6
(Original post by Anonymous)
He's not my partner we're just friends... so why would he care so much to be feeling angry?
Connect the dots. There is a high probability he is attracted to you.
0
reply
imaniii
Badges: 17
#7
Report 7 months ago
#7
They want the girl for themselves only that’s why lol
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#8
Report 7 months ago
#8
(Original post by Anonymous)
He's not my partner we're just friends... so why would he care so much to be feeling angry?
He’s definitely attracted to you , I did the same with my ‘mate’ who I was super close with and turned out I liked her and that’s why I was so jealous and protective over her . I’d say give the guy a change ? What’s the worst thing that can happen honestly
0
reply
Mollino
Badges: 6
Rep:
?
#9
Report 7 months ago
#9
Cause he is insecure, cause he likes you, and cause he knows all the stupid **** guys be spittin to get into girls pants.
0
reply
Zarek
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#10
Report 7 months ago
#10
I guess because mate poaching is a thing. Although from what I've seen the best way to hold on to a desirable partner who everyone wants to flirt with is to be totally unfazed by it and non-possessive.
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#11
Report 7 months ago
#11
(Original post by Anonymous)
He’s definitely attracted to you , I did the same with my ‘mate’ who I was super close with and turned out I liked her and that’s why I was so jealous and protective over her . I’d say give the guy a change ? What’s the worst thing that can happen honestly
Was meant to say chance not change
0
reply
Anonymous #3
#12
Report 7 months ago
#12
The last girl I went out with I got extremely jealous. This was very destructive and ruined the relationship and we have not spoken since. This girl made me jealous by talking to my friends more than me when we went out, friending guys I introduced her to on FB and chatting to them constantly, flirting openly with other men in public like seedy barmen and even random dudes in town, and meeting up with one of my friends "for coffee". After that happened we had an argument and she said she met him as friends (okay, but why did coffee last a whole evening?). She then said that I was "constantly jealous". Well if she hadn't made me jealous, then I wouldn't have been jealous would I. Needless to say that row was the last date I went with her.
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#13
Report 7 months ago
#13
(Original post by Anonymous)
The last girl I went out with I got extremely jealous. This was very destructive and ruined the relationship and we have not spoken since. This girl made me jealous by talking to my friends more than me when we went out, friending guys I introduced her to on FB and chatting to them constantly, flirting openly with other men in public like seedy barmen and even random dudes in town, and meeting up with one of my friends "for coffee". After that happened we had an argument and she said she met him as friends (okay, but why did coffee last a whole evening?). She then said that I was "constantly jealous". Well if she hadn't made me jealous, then I wouldn't have been jealous would I. Needless to say that row was the last date I went with her.
I think you were right to feel jealous , she sounds like a sl*g
0
reply
Jaguar1200
Badges: 15
Rep:
?
#14
Report 7 months ago
#14
(Original post by Anonymous)
He's not my partner we're just friends... so why would he care so much to be feeling angry?
he wants to get in yo pants ofc
0
reply
NA_03
Badges: 14
Rep:
?
#15
Report 7 months ago
#15
Insecurity

Same way I would get jealous is a guy I fancy chats to another gyal even tho he says it’s nuttin.
0
reply
londonmyst
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#16
Report 7 months ago
#16
Controlling nature, domineering, insecurity or territorial.
0
reply
londonmyst
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#17
Report 7 months ago
#17
(Original post by Anonymous)
The last girl I went out with I got extremely jealous. This was very destructive and ruined the relationship and we have not spoken since. This girl made me jealous by talking to my friends more than me when we went out, friending guys I introduced her to on FB and chatting to them constantly, flirting openly with other men in public like seedy barmen and even random dudes in town, and meeting up with one of my friends "for coffee". After that happened we had an argument and she said she met him as friends (okay, but why did coffee last a whole evening?). She then said that I was "constantly jealous". Well if she hadn't made me jealous, then I wouldn't have been jealous would I. Needless to say that row was the last date I went with her.
I wonder if you will blame every extroverted girl that you ever go on a date who is in the habit of socialising with guys.
Instead of facing the fact that you have serious trust and jealousy issues that you don't seem to make any effort to get under control.
If so, your insecurity and jealous tendencies will likely wreck every intimate relationship you ever have before 20 days.
1
reply
Anonymous #2
#18
Report 7 months ago
#18
(Original post by londonmyst)
I wonder if you will blame every extroverted girl that you ever go on a date who is in the habit of socialising with guys.
Instead of facing the fact that you have serious trust and jealousy issues that you don't seem to make any effort to get under control.
If so, your insecurity and jealous tendencies will likely wreck every intimate relationship you ever have before 20 days.
Attachment 907008

You’re so wrong smh 🤦🏻*♂️
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

Have you experienced financial difficulties as a student due to Covid-19?

Yes, I have really struggled financially (67)
17.77%
I have experienced some financial difficulties (108)
28.65%
I haven't experienced any financial difficulties and things have stayed the same (142)
37.67%
I have had better financial opportunities as a result of the pandemic (48)
12.73%
I've had another experience (let us know in the thread!) (12)
3.18%

Watched Threads

View All